I Hate Guys Who Flirt

[* kittie *]

I dislike guys who tell you they like you... but then they've told every girl on the street that. Had that happen to me. He told me he liked me more than just friends. Of course didn't buy it. I'm sure he felt sincere...but this person also tended to hit on a lot of females

 

[leothelioness]

Edited since the situation has apparently been resolved.

Aww, now I'm curious as to what you had to say!

 

[Zoness]

Before you get the wrong idea, let me explain.

I don't mind flirting in and of itself (what girl would?), but what I hate is guys who will flirt with anyone just to flirt. That I can't stand. Why? Because you think they're flirting with you because they like you, so you get this wonderful confidence about yourself only for it to come crashing down after you realise they had no intentions of pursuing you.

Guys, please don't do this. Seriously. We ladies are schooled to believe that guys show their interest in us through flirtation, so do us a favor and don't flirt unless you really like us. Otherwise, you're just a huge douchebag if you get off on toying with people like that.

Girls do this like crazy, so I don't wanna hear it.

 

[MacFall]

Aww, now I'm curious as to what you had to say!

Check your reps.

 

[white dove]

Don't get it twisted.

Aww.

 

[Gym]

we're single for a reason.

I like to think it's because I'm a Ruskie in America.. if if that may or may not be reality as to 'why'.

 

[Stravinsk]

Hmm...

Have to define "flirt". I called you attractive once (you are) and now I wonder what that could mean to various people.

A) I'm flirting
B) Since I'm considerably older than you, all I'm interested in is doing the horizontal shuffle.
C) I'm just being nice
D) I'm playing at being a "Cavalier"

 

[Gym]

look if I've somehow garnered the courage to go up and even speak to a pretty lady.. I'm interested!

 

[MehTeh]

I flirt. I say nice things to make them feel good about themselves.

If I'm actually interested I'll invest time and effort, not just a kind word in passing every now and again.

 

[leothelioness]

Hmm...

Have to define "flirt". I called you attractive once (you are) and now I wonder what that could mean to various people.

A) I'm flirting
B) Since I'm considerably older than you, all I'm interested in is doing the horizontal shuffle.
C) I'm just being nice
D) I'm playing at being a "Cavalier"

To me that's not flirting. That's just being honest.

When I say "flirting", and my definition may be different than most, is speech that is laden with innuendo and suggestion. Touching someone briefly while talking to them, but in a suggestive manner. Things that indicate some level of interest.

I'm saying guys, don't do this if you're just looking to "score". Don't do this if it boosts your ego, and don't do it if you don't intend to take things farther. I'm not sure why this is getting lost on some folks. It seems pretty simple to me. I would never lead a guy on like that, since I know how I would feel if in his shoes.

 

[Perhaps Today]

So in other words you can't stand guys like this.

YouTube - ‪How to Pick up Chicks: Johnny Bravo Style.‬‏

 

[leothelioness]

I will make an exception for Johnny Bravo.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

lol, I guess I'll ask if you've ever thought I was a flirt with you?

 

[leothelioness]

I don't know. Were you?

Apparently you flirt with everyone.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

correction, I am friendly with everybody; I only flirt with pretty ladies so yes, I thought I was a bit flirty with you!

 

[Perhaps Today]

I will make an exception for Johnny Bravo.

Awesome.

 

[leothelioness]

Lol, okay, that settles it, then.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

lol well not really Miss, I was askin' if YOU thought I was flirty with you I know I was being flirty.

ETA: I'm asking because this whole thread is dedicated to guys who flirt! And basically you calling us jerks.

 

[leothelioness]

I thought so, yes.

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Aw Sarah, just so you know: I do think you're very pretty, and I would take you out in a moment's notice if we were actually able to do so.

I just don't like to think of myself as a jerk to you.