How can i control my emotions?? please tell me how.... dont tell me by obeying someone.. coz obedience is not love... dont tell me by respecting, fearing, thanking, and all that.. because all those things come with love, but they themselves do not constitute love...
All control comes from within. What you resist... persist. I would suggest that you begin a process of meditation and prayer. Prayer is your time talking to God (not demanding) and meditation is a time of listening. Set some time aside everyday to meditate to listen to your soul. It takes time, but the more you continue, the more you realize you already have what you need, in fact your are all of those things.
It did not appear at all... what happened is the reverse... ppl are hating me more and more.... what i have got to lose? everything.. i dont have any friends at all now... my friends that i really LOVE turned against me... why? i have no clue.... maybe im not that good... but i tried to change with all my effort.. i asked god for help... and everything went worse...
You nailed it!You did it! You have just made a grand discovery and it proves that God is listening to you, that He is giving you what you want. There are 5 Universal Laws and you just dicovered one of them... it is called the Law of Opposites. It is a universal law just like the Law of Attraction.
Let me give you a example, I have chosen to be several things in my life, one of those is love. I will be love wherever I go and I will display love in what ever I do. Those around me will feel love when they are around me. It sounds like you made this decision for yourself at some very deep level. So naturally (or super naturally) every type of non loving attitude has shown up on schedule. This is what it is supposed to do.
Life or God does this in order for you to experience what you say you are. You create the environment in order for you to create the experience and beingness that is your deepest desire.
You say your are "peace,: all manner of turmoil shows up so you can be what you say you are.
You are "love," all manner of hatred shows up so you can demonstrate your love.
You are "abundance," lack of every sort will make its way to you so you can be the abundance that you claim that you are.
And so the story goes. Look at what you have claimed for yourself to be, at your deepest level. My guess is that what you are experiencing now, is in direct correlation with your deepest desire and just the opposite is showing up.
It will take time, but it will pass. Embrace all that is happening for what it is and be what you have always desired to be. Be a bringer of the light to the darkeness.
Simplywhy, this is a great day for you. Do you understand this? Do you understand, that God has answered your prayers?
If you want to be love where ever you go, how would you ever do that unless you have a space, a context in which to display it? God has answered you in a way that seems directly the opposite of what you asked for, but He has put you in a place to demonstrate, to be what you said you want to be.
Your duty is to embrace it for what it is and be the love that you desired to be. You will see that you will get exactly what you asked for. It will come as soon as you become love to first yourself, and then to those whose lives you touch.
Perspective.
Eph.
I'm in a same situation, meaning feeling lost and I dont' have a job or career for 3 years. I'm getting old and all that. Sometimes when I ask for some sympathy, I don't feel like it's real. I feel God forsakened me.....but you know what??!!
