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[StrugglingWithLife]

Hey, I was feeling really unsettled lately. I think I'm giving up on wanting to have sex, get married, find love. God said that all sex outside of marriage is a condemned sin, and even though he created it, he is going to obsolete it in heaven anyway. I am spiritually crippled by the idea that we will one day not desire that stuff.

I know there will be probably nuclear war in a couple years, and that only makes the anxiety worse.

I am not able to cope with this enlightenment though. How can I get over this and make peace again?

I feel ashamed that I was never really able to get the opportunity to enjoy things in life because of my autism.

 

[StrugglingWithLife]

I'm so sorry, I guess I should be ashamed for posting this.

 

[PurrestInnocent]

Hi there: )
I'm surprise {and sad} that no one has replied to your post: (
Maybe I can be of some help.


Do not feel ashamed for posting this. Nor feel ashame that you will never have the opportunity to enjoy some of things you desire in life because of your autism. Truly God will give you your heart's desire if the desire is of good.

As for this giving up with wanting sex perhaps this is a good thing? Maybe you giving up on this is preparing you for the future just in case if God bless you with the right person in who you and the other person may fall in love and one day get married.


Make peace by not worrying about a nuclear war that may happen in a couple of years.

One: You may not live to see it.

And Two: It could happen any day, any hour, any second. No time to worry but to prepare is all I can say on this. Prepare by stocking up on food and finding a location for shelter for when it does happen. Like how Joseph stocked food before the great famine in Genesis.

Make peace by not giving up. Slowing down is one thing. Even postponing finding love ok but do not completely give up nor lose any hope. You never know what the Good Lord may do for you right when you were just about to give up completely. I guess you could give up BUT do not lose hope. Giving up don't necessary mean you've lost hope.

One Last Thing: About your austism, let that not be a hindrance. {I hope I used the right word} But I understand how you feel a little. I have "learning disability" because of my reading comprehension. And I think I have adult A.D.D. My attention is slow and off...LOL.
My Mom always tell me not to let those things prevent me from believing I can't do anything or going after something I want and desire. It is hard...I KNOW. Oh how hard it is especially if you have low confidence and self esteem....like me..LOL

Anyway I hope you will find some peace. May God help you with this.