I got denied.......

[aflower4God]

...well the wait is over... the social security disability judge made up his mind...I was denied of benefits. I am crushed! I was really counting on getting that money.

My best friend called my mother and all my mother said "just get a job" Mom doesn't seem to understand I have tried to work numerous of times but I ended up quitting cause of my panic attacks after arguing with someone or a couple of people cause of being left out (outcasted) or picked on. My mom was like "just be tough", just like that, 1-2-3 I HAVE TRIED THAT!
Anyway, at this point my food stamps have not been approved after this month on top of me getting denied. I have nothing (no hubby, kids or direction) and living off my best friend is NOT fair to her AT ALL! If I have nothing to give to this world (no kids no hubby, no direction, NOTHING) and can not support myself,
NO this is not what I wanted with my life, I wanted to at least to be able to support myself.
Well, Thanks for reading this and those of you who prayed for me to get approved, thank you so much for all of your prayers

My heart is shattered by the news, I am very depressed BTW this is not the first time I was denied but this is the first time I was denied after going to court.
Praying for you all
Many BIG To all of you!
PS I did have an attorney that went to court with me as well and yet it still didnt work
And I had a long letter from my current psychiatrist and all my documents from her as well.

 

[Dusky Mouse]

Did you have an attorney?

 

[aflower4God]

Did you have an attorney?

Yeah and she represented me in court too. BUT STILL it didn't work!

 

[Gailerina]

Are you able to appeal? Did you have a therapist testify or submit something.

 

[aflower4God]

Are you able to appeal? Did you have a therapist testify or submit something.

I had a note from my therapist and all my records but still that didn't work

 

[psalms 91]

Appeal and dont give up, they routinely deny almost everyone.

 

[aflower4God]

Appeal and dont give up, they routinely deny almost everyone.

Thank you brother, I have been told that after one goes to court (being that I appealed it several times before the court hearing) that after the court case one usually gets approved, I am confused. I would think if I went to court once then they would approve.

 

[Dusky Mouse]

Thank you brother, I have been told that after one goes to court (being that I appealed it several times before the court hearing) that after the court case one usually gets approved, I am confused. I would think if I went to court once then they would approve.

It's almost like test to see how bad you want your own money back.

My best friend's first cousin has Parkinsons Disease.
When he went to apply for his disability at near 60 years of age, he was shaking so badly that he couldn't work and he couldn't even dress hmself. His 87 year old mother, recently widowed, had to take care of him.

He goes to the doctor so they can officially diagnose he's got the disease and would be unable to hold down a job, and the doctor tells his mom that she has to leave so Steven can get undressed for the exam.

The mom explains he can't undress himself. The doctor insists that because the guy is not a minor he has to have his privacy.
30 minutes later the doctor comes out and asks the mom if she'll come in and help her son undress. :o

Even after that it took two appeals and 6 months, but he got his disability. He's now in a home because at 6'1" he's so infirm that his elderly mom hasn't a chance of taking care of him on her own.
He can't do anything but shake. He can't walk, feed himself, anything. He was near that condition when he went for his disability. But the doctor said, even when this guy is in that condition right there in his office, that he had to be sure.
Nah man, he's just really really cold! Idiot!

This guy worked since he was old enough to get a job. And he had to plead for the money he'd put into FICA all those years.

SS Admin. are scoundrels!

 

[miss-a]

Flower, I agree with the others that continued appeals are advisable. Please talk with the lawyer about this option. Don't give up. Please. We love you. And we don't really know the denial is God's answer. Please keep trying.

 

[Jeshu]

Don't give up Flower, they are just trying to fob you off, keep pushing for justice to take place.

and don't believe that God's will is the same as the courts will. God's will is that we should love one anther and take care of those in need.

 

[Krissy Cakes]

I'm so very very sorry hun you got denied.

I'm praying for you and I love you.

We will miss you if you leave us. So please don't leave us.

 

[RuthD]

I'm sorry you were denied. I think you should keep talking to your attorney and keep trying. What are you going to do in the woods?

 

[aflower4God]

Hi there everyone for your support I just talked to my attorney and they said the appeal at this point would take anywhere from 1-2 YEARS!

 

[psalms 91]

Hang in there I know it is hard. PM me if you wish to talk. Please know that people care about you and God loves you more than you can possibly know.

 

[Gailerina]

Hi there everyone for your support I just talked to my attorney and they said the appeal at this point would take anywhere from 1-2 YEARS!

It's worth it, because if you win they owe you back payments.

 

[Victorium]

Hi there everyone for your support I just talked to my attorney and they said the appeal at this point would take anywhere from 1-2 YEARS!

Please appeal, it's worth fighting for it dear Flower. Many people who get the disability pension had to fight for it despite being ill and unable to work....I had to appeal also before I got it. They have a policy of messing people around. Hang in there and don't lose hope......We are ALL by your side!

 

[Chococat]

I'm so sorry you were turned down again. I don't know about the US Social Security system but I agree with everyone here. DON'T GIVE UP!!! Also running off to live in the woods is NOT the answer and NOT what God wants you to do. Plus it would only cause more pain to your best friend and to all your friends online if you did that so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DON'T RUN OFF INTO THE WOODS!!!

 

[DaisyMae]

Praying for you, Flower.

 

[power2theweak]

 

[aflower4God]

((((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))) thank you all so much for your support and prayers, it is hard for me to pray at this point, I just feel so lost.