As some of you know, I recently posted in this forum regarding a soulmate who dumped me. I described how depressed I am. But something keeps bothering me. I know there are people out there that have WAY worse problems then me. I have a good job, a roof over my head, food on the table, all of my limbs, etc. But still, I feel depressed and sad and loney and feel like dieing over something so seamingly insignificant. Am I just being selfish? I really do care for other people and realize I'm in much better shape than a lot of people, but still, this breakup is just killing me.
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I feel so selfish
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No you are not selfish. Please go to this website: http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/
It will explain why you feel this way and help you to change for the better. Please follow it I promise it can only help!
It will explain why you feel this way and help you to change for the better. Please follow it I promise it can only help!
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mmreed
... by His wounds you are healed!
cbrown74 said:
it is this humility and compassion for others that will allow the void in your life to be filled by a soulmate. Become involved in serving others... you reap what you sow... and community groups are great places to meet caring and compassionate others.
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ArmouredSaint
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Everything is secondary when it comes to a heart breaking. I know. I had mine shattered by a girls suicide. Although you feel our problems are more I tend to believe your heart is in great pain. You have every reason to hurt and vent so please,do that with us. 
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Servant4Yeshuah
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cbrown74 said:
Be patient and gentle with yourself and let Yeshuah heal you... We love you here, but more importantly, God loves you
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UnitynLove
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We all have problems big or small and we all need help with them. You are just experessing how you feel. So its good.
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We often try and rate our own issues in relation to those of others but the truth is that things happen and they hurt. Often the way we view them will seem less than someone else but that doesn't change what is going on inside of us.
Selfish - No
Hurting - yes
Hold on to life - it is the only one you have
I will be praying for you
Selfish - No
Hurting - yes
Hold on to life - it is the only one you have
I will be praying for you
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