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NoddaProbBob said:
Most everyone on here talks about just wanting to get better, but Im not sure that I want to get better yet...

is that bad?
Recovery iakes work and is a difficult journey. We choose to take that journey when we are ready and when we feel the need. It could be that you just aren't ready yet. That's okay.

For me, my self-injury was creating dysfunction in my everyday life. Also, having found the Lord, I knew that he didn't want me to hurt His temple. Our body is His temple and He wants us to keep it healthy and holy. Hurting myself is contrary to His teachings and His will. Therefore, I felt compelled to take that hard journey for Him and for myself.

When you are ready, you will take that step. Until then, it's okay to feel the way you do.

Blessings upon blessings to you.
Kim
 
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