I don't know who else to talk to about this so I decided to come here for a bit of advice.
I recently turned 20 and I have a boyfriend whom I have been dating for 2 years on February 14th. I live in England and he is in Malaysia for University. He is a Christian and so am I. We haven't had sex but we both have had sex with different people. I have only had sex with one person and I haven't bothered to ask him about his sex life because we both have a new life now. We have spoken about marriage and have planned what we are going to do after we both finish University (we have discussed starting a family, basically everything). Anyway because we don't see each other for a long period of time he often asks me to send him nudes. And I have read on yahoo forums and others that this is only fine for married couples. I don't send them to anyone else except him and he doesn't show anyone and deletes them after he sees them and sometimes asks me if he can keep one or two. Am I wrong for doing this with him and should I wait till he marries me? Also I am going to Malaysia for holiday this summer so we can spend time together and I will be staying with him. I would like advice on that too.
Thank you in advance x
I recently turned 20 and I have a boyfriend whom I have been dating for 2 years on February 14th. I live in England and he is in Malaysia for University. He is a Christian and so am I. We haven't had sex but we both have had sex with different people. I have only had sex with one person and I haven't bothered to ask him about his sex life because we both have a new life now. We have spoken about marriage and have planned what we are going to do after we both finish University (we have discussed starting a family, basically everything). Anyway because we don't see each other for a long period of time he often asks me to send him nudes. And I have read on yahoo forums and others that this is only fine for married couples. I don't send them to anyone else except him and he doesn't show anyone and deletes them after he sees them and sometimes asks me if he can keep one or two. Am I wrong for doing this with him and should I wait till he marries me? Also I am going to Malaysia for holiday this summer so we can spend time together and I will be staying with him. I would like advice on that too.
Thank you in advance x