I dont know what to do with my life!! please help!!?

[davito]

I am very confuse about my future, and I dont know what to do with my life. I dont know what I am good for. I am a 24 year old male, and I am christian. I love Jesus and God but sometime life and my mind try to rob me from being with God. There are times I just want to forget about cristianity and stop going to church and bible study. There are times I just want to forget about there is a god and I just want to start living a different life like going to clubs, date girls and start having sex. My life have been tough since I was a kid and those are the situation that try to rob me my faith everytime I think about it and all the time I see the same pattern repeating. I dont know what to expect in the future.

Some people say do whatever you are pasionate about; but I dont know what I am pasionate about. I had issues with porn adiction and I wanted to become a porn actor before. But God put new dreams into my heart and now I am failing at college. I feel miserable, they even put me in probation and they will kick me out if I fail this semester. I have waste too much time. I need to help my family. My parents are getting old and I still dont produce. I pray every single night so God can guide me in my dream, I want that God talk in my dreams. I feel very confuse.

Please advise me, and pray for me I will pray for you. I want that God increase my faith, and make me stronger so I can stay firm and not get discorage by life. I want to be apasionate about life and love life. Please God help me, dont let my mind to rob me and put me apart from you.

Thanks!

 

[wonderwaleye]

I am very confuse about my future, and I dont know what to do with my life. I dont know what I am good for. I am a 24 year old male, and I am christian. I love Jesus and God but sometime life and my mind try to rob me from being with God. There are times I just want to forget about cristianity and stop going to church and bible study. There are times I just want to forget about there is a god and I just want to start living a different life like going to clubs, date girls and start having sex. My life have been tough since I was a kid and those are the situation that try to rob me my faith everytime I think about it and all the time I see the same pattern repeating. I dont know what to expect in the future.

Some people say do whatever you are pasionate about; but I dont know what I am pasionate about. I had issues with porn adiction and I wanted to become a porn actor before. But God put new dreams into my heart and now I am failing at college. I feel miserable, they even put me in probation and they will kick me out if I fail this semester. I have waste too much time. I need to help my family. My parents are getting old and I still dont produce. I pray every single night so God can guide me in my dream, I want that God talk in my dreams. I feel very confuse.

Please advise me, and pray for me I will pray for you. I want that God increase my faith, and make me stronger so I can stay firm and not get discorage by life. I want to be apasionate about life and love life. Please God help me, dont let my mind to rob me and put me apart from you.

Thanks!

There is no such thing as going half way with GOD.



If you are going to be part of the KINGDOM of ALMIGHTY GOD you MUST GIVE IT ALL TO GOD.






GOD demands that you give HIM your WHOLE heart, mind, strength, and soul. That means you go in prayer and tell GOD that you will do this and from that moment on seek GOD in all your decisions. After this is complete GOD will know. For HE searches the heart. HE will then send HIS HOLY SPIRIT ( ANOINTED-BORN AGAIN- SAVED ). For it is then that you shall receive the MISSION GOD has for just you and supply all your needs, even what you have not the ability to have.






Pick up GOD'S ROAD MAP to the KINGDOM of ALMIGHTY GOD ( BIBLE ) and start reading the NEW TESTIMENT till the next time you read it you will already know what IT'S going to say. For then it's locked in your heart to draw from for the rest of your life. You will NEVER be sorry you did.


You are now in the mating season and having to deal with lust.





Lust is not an evil feeling. It is a GOD given feeling that brings us to procreate. If it were not for lust there would be far less babies in this world.






My Bible and Webster's dictionary defines lust as:



Pleasure, delight, wish, craving



All GOD given feelings that has power over us to procreate:



1 Corinthians
Chapter 7




9 but if they cannot exercise self-control they should marry, for it is better to marry than to be on fire.


Here you can see the extreme feeling we have. GOD understands your weakness to lust and tells you what you must do to get a release of this pressure.



So now you know what you must do.



When your lust drives you into sin the only thing we can do is lay it at the FEET of JESUS and ask for forgiveness.






Do yourself a BIG FAVOR and Start right now!!!



LOVE


steven

 

[One day at a time]

I'll pray for you! Also can I suggest a book for you to read to help your mind? It's called "Every Man's Battle" by Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker. I know it's a man book and my husband has read it but I too have read it and it has some very good principles in it that might help.
Also another question...Are you reading the Word? Don't give up on church and Bible study. Don't fall the tricks of the devil telling you that those other things would be so much better--they aren't.
I'm going to pray that God will hold you firm and that you will stand for what is right. Also that you will apply yourself wholeheartedly to your studies so you won't fail. God will help you--I know He will.

 

[goldenviolet]

welcome to CF , i'm dee. there is other forums you may utilize as well. the men's forum. singles. recovery. i work in the recovery forums. my encouragement to you, is to keep seeking. you will find. xo dee

 

[Lucis]

I guess it is a bit like myself. I used to be a drug-using psychonaut and my whole personality and life-style was really different from what I think it should be as a Christian. And maybe the same with you wanting to become a porn star. After those things are gone from the life it kind of leaves a vacuum where you wonder what to do now. And I often felt the same way as you, that I wanted a different life then this. I don't know how to get used to living as a Christian. But I guess if we just hang on to Jesus, then things will work out to the best, like He did promise that it will. So whatever you do, just don't give up on Jesus

 

[davito]

Thanks guys, thats very uplifting and beatiful from all!!

 

[Elijah2]

I am very confuse about my future, and I dont know what to do with my life. I dont know what I am good for.
Mate, the modern world is full of people who feels the same way as you do.

So, what sort of a trade do you have?

I am a 24 year old male, and I am christian. I love Jesus and God but sometime life and my mind try to rob me from being with God.
The enemy comes to steal, destroy, and kill anything good that any Christian may have with our Lord Jesus Christ.

There are times I just want to forget about cristianity and stop going to church and bible study.
You are not alone on that one mate, as I drop out of church often, and don’t do much Bible Study these days, but I still try to keep my finger on the pulse, and any of this doesn’t stop me from fighting a good fight of faith.

There are times I just want to forget about there is a god and I just want to start living a different life like going to clubs, date girls and start having sex.
Mate, so you are saying that you haven’t a girl friend?

My life have been tough since I was a kid and those are the situation that try to rob me my faith everytime I think about it and all the time I see the same pattern repeating. I dont know what to expect in the future.
Mate, so what did happen in your life as a kid, have you worked through your feelings from those days?

Some people say do whatever you are pasionate about; but I dont know what I am pasionate about.
Well, what happened to you during your school days, didn’t you have a certain activity that you inspired in during your school days?

I had issues with porn adiction and I wanted to become a porn actor before.
So, have you worked through that addiction, and have you confessed, and repented that sin, and asked HIM for forgiveness, and do you feel as though you are forgiven?

But God put new dreams into my heart and now I am failing at college.
Our Lord Jesus Christ doesn’t put dreams in a person mind that would lead to failing in college. Are you sure our Lord Jesus Christ put these dreams there, or did you do so yourself or the enemy?

I feel miserable, they even put me in probation and they will kick me out if I fail this semester.
Well, it’s quiet obvious that you have to lift your game!

I have waste too much time. I need to help my family. My parents are getting old and I still dont produce.
There is no “quick fix” to your problem mate, only you can solve that, only you can make those decisions and choices to bring you back into being positive, only you!

I pray every single night so God can guide me in my dream, I want that God talk in my dreams. I feel very confuse.
You start praying those sorts of dreams and I sure that Satan and his forces will gladly accommodate you and fill your mind with the wrong things.

You don’t pray for our Lord Jesus Christ to give you dreams, you pray to HIM to get you to submit to HIM and to draw near to HIM; also asking HIM to cleanse your hands and purify your heart. In doing so, you will be able to resist Satan and his forces and pull yourself out of these doldrums.

Please advise me, and pray for me I will pray for you.
Mate, you need to be aware that you have to be in HIS WILL to get answered prayers. Are you walking in HIS WILL?

I want that God increase my faith,
Our Lord Jesus Christ won’t increase your faith, only you can do that, nobody else, only you!

and make me stronger so I can stay firm and not get discorage by life.
You become strong by cleansing your hands, purifying your heart, transforming and renewing your brain and your heart!

I want to be apasionate about life and love life.
I am sorry mate, but only you can do that, and as sad as it is, the majority of believer struggle with life as much as you.

You can only change your way, by changing. Only you mate, nobody else can do it for you.

We can be here for you to guide and advise you, but when it all comes down to the nitty-gritty, you are the answer to your problems.

Have you read any Christian Books, see if you can get a copy of “Victory Over Darkness” and “Bondage Breakers” by Neil Anderson.

Please God help me, dont let my mind to rob me and put me apart from you.
HE came to heal your broken-heart, and to set you free, so please mate, start looking for good GOD-anointed Christian counselling to bring you’re your Freedom.

Blessings

 

[wayfaring man]

Greetings ,

My advice is to prayerfully search the Scriptures for your own soul's sake .

God's Word speaks to us individually , and if one puts forth the time and effort , some part of Scripture will stand out and minister to your individual need . And when this happens , study that part of Scripture extensively , looking up all the names + key words , even searching the original tongues , and the root meanings thereof . For by doing this one is allowing God's Word to speak directly to them , which enhances and edifies our love and faith for God and Christ , inspiring also , a better understanding of our calling and place within God's Kingdom & The Body of Christ .

Thy words were found, and I did eat them; and thy word was unto me the joy and rejoicing of mine heart: for I am called by thy name, O LORD God of hosts. <-----> Jeremiah 15:16

Concerning the works of men, by the word of thy lips I have kept me from the paths of the destroyer. <-----> Psalm 17:4

This is my comfort in my affliction: for thy word hath quickened me. <-----> Psalm 119:50

Check out this link - http://www.e-sword.net

May The Lord Be Pleased !

wm

 

[davito]

I am very confuse about my future, and I dont know what to do with my life. I dont know what I am good for.
Mate, the modern world is full of people who feels the same way as you do.

So, what sort of a trade do you have?

I am a 24 year old male, and I am christian. I love Jesus and God but sometime life and my mind try to rob me from being with God.
The enemy comes to steal, destroy, and kill anything good that any Christian may have with our Lord Jesus Christ.

There are times I just want to forget about cristianity and stop going to church and bible study.
You are not alone on that one mate, as I drop out of church often, and don’t do much Bible Study these days, but I still try to keep my finger on the pulse, and any of this doesn’t stop me from fighting a good fight of faith.

There are times I just want to forget about there is a god and I just want to start living a different life like going to clubs, date girls and start having sex.
Mate, so you are saying that you haven’t a girl friend?

My life have been tough since I was a kid and those are the situation that try to rob me my faith everytime I think about it and all the time I see the same pattern repeating. I dont know what to expect in the future.
Mate, so what did happen in your life as a kid, have you worked through your feelings from those days?

Some people say do whatever you are pasionate about; but I dont know what I am pasionate about.
Well, what happened to you during your school days, didn’t you have a certain activity that you inspired in during your school days?

I had issues with porn adiction and I wanted to become a porn actor before.
So, have you worked through that addiction, and have you confessed, and repented that sin, and asked HIM for forgiveness, and do you feel as though you are forgiven?

But God put new dreams into my heart and now I am failing at college.
Our Lord Jesus Christ doesn’t put dreams in a person mind that would lead to failing in college. Are you sure our Lord Jesus Christ put these dreams there, or did you do so yourself or the enemy?

I feel miserable, they even put me in probation and they will kick me out if I fail this semester.
Well, it’s quiet obvious that you have to lift your game!

I have waste too much time. I need to help my family. My parents are getting old and I still dont produce.
There is no “quick fix” to your problem mate, only you can solve that, only you can make those decisions and choices to bring you back into being positive, only you!

I pray every single night so God can guide me in my dream, I want that God talk in my dreams. I feel very confuse.
You start praying those sorts of dreams and I sure that Satan and his forces will gladly accommodate you and fill your mind with the wrong things.

You don’t pray for our Lord Jesus Christ to give you dreams, you pray to HIM to get you to submit to HIM and to draw near to HIM; also asking HIM to cleanse your hands and purify your heart. In doing so, you will be able to resist Satan and his forces and pull yourself out of these doldrums.

Please advise me, and pray for me I will pray for you.
Mate, you need to be aware that you have to be in HIS WILL to get answered prayers. Are you walking in HIS WILL?

I want that God increase my faith,
Our Lord Jesus Christ won’t increase your faith, only you can do that, nobody else, only you!

and make me stronger so I can stay firm and not get discorage by life.
You become strong by cleansing your hands, purifying your heart, transforming and renewing your brain and your heart!

I want to be apasionate about life and love life.
I am sorry mate, but only you can do that, and as sad as it is, the majority of believer struggle with life as much as you.

You can only change your way, by changing. Only you mate, nobody else can do it for you.

We can be here for you to guide and advise you, but when it all comes down to the nitty-gritty, you are the answer to your problems.

Have you read any Christian Books, see if you can get a copy of “Victory Over Darkness” and “Bondage Breakers” by Neil Anderson.

Please God help me, dont let my mind to rob me and put me apart from you.
HE came to heal your broken-heart, and to set you free, so please mate, start looking for good GOD-anointed Christian counselling to bring you’re your Freedom.

Blessings

Thanks a lot mate for following everithing closely sentence by sentence thanks for the help!!

 

[glass_heart]

Um.... you know it's not the end of the world if you fail in college. There are other ways to get on in the world that are not governed by small peices of paper. If it is very important to you to pass a college course, then relax- you'll get there. I happened to fail parts of my english AS level THREE TIMES, before I got through. God gives me the strength to carry on.

I really think you just need someone to talk to- and that's what we're here for. Elijah has some good points, and as goldenviolet says there are a lot of other forums on here that can and will offer you support help and advice.

Btw being confused is fine; everyone feels this way, probably more often then they'd like to admit. It will pass, not overnight, but it will pass.

Have you thought about doing something different? I did a great deal of volunteering when I was at college and uni- it puts life in perspective which is something I badly needed. I also went on a pilgrimage, which was exteremly enlightening (no that was not a pune). Life will keep on throwing us to the lions- but only because God knows we have the strength to overcome it.

 

[aldar]

Davito,

"Whats my destiny mama? Your gonna have to figure that our for yourself Forest."
Forest Gump.

Seriously...

 

[davito]

Um.... you know it's not the end of the world if you fail in college. There are other ways to get on in the world that are not governed by small peices of paper. If it is very important to you to pass a college course, then relax- you'll get there. I happened to fail parts of my english AS level THREE TIMES, before I got through. God gives me the strength to carry on.

I really think you just need someone to talk to- and that's what we're here for. Elijah has some good points, and as goldenviolet says there are a lot of other forums on here that can and will offer you support help and advice.

Btw being confused is fine; everyone feels this way, probably more often then they'd like to admit. It will pass, not overnight, but it will pass.

Have you thought about doing something different? I did a great deal of volunteering when I was at college and uni- it puts life in perspective which is something I badly needed. I also went on a pilgrimage, which was exteremly enlightening (no that was not a pune). Life will keep on throwing us to the lions- but only because God knows we have the strength to overcome it.

Thanks, yea I have done some volunteering and I have find it helpful. There are things that I like but I am not that good at it. I sort of like science, but unfortunately I score below the class average most of the time. Right now I came to the conclusion that I will do my best and will take my time. I will wait until God put new dreams in my heart or until God give me intelligence to succeed.