My husband and I have been fighting a lot. He is a preacher who wants to do missionary work in countries that are not the safest for women and children. He knows before I met him I had always planned to live on my family land near my siblings and parents and grandparents. I left my family to go help teach gods word with him . To him that does not seem to be enough. I have to keep on be willing to give up more and more. He has been talking about places like Africa and ask me if he moved me somewhere like that if I would still respect him. I told him I would try. Apparently that was the wrong answer. He is furious saying that me respecting him comes with terms. I told him I would try my best because he knows that's a place I am scared to go with our children but that's not enough for him. I don't understand how I'm supposed to just automatically be happy with these decisions. What should I do?