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this has been one of the worst weeks of my life. everything is just going wrong..and to make it worse i just had the biggest fight with my boyfriend ..he said such horrible things to hurt me more than he's ever hurt me before..he made me feel like i was bad and that i was worthless..he knew just the right things to say to make me feel worse..its like he doesnt even care enough to say anything everytime i call him to sort out the fight either
i feel like i cant do anything without him..my life just seems so meaningless..everything he said while we were fighting..everytime i think about it i just feel like i'm not worth living..
i havent cut myself in almost 2 years and i want to right now VERY VERY badly..
god's just abandoning me..i dunno what to do
 

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redridinghood,

God is not abandoning you. He never will. He loves you and would do anything for you. He's always there, and will answer you when you seek Him.

Is your boyfriend a Christian? If so, it sounds like he needs to hang around some mature Christian men. Our job is to lift up our loved ones. We are to love our brides as Christ loved the church, and we need to learn to do this while we are still courting, if we haven't learned it from our parents before. He should be a comfort to you, especially when you are down.

If he isn't a Christian - maybe you should consider if that is the kind of relationship you want to pursue. Remember the warnings against being unequally yoked.

Remember, you are not worthless. You are one of God's precious creations. I'll pray for your situation, and relationship with God. Is there anything specific you'd like us to pray about for you?
 
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God never abandons us, it just may feel like that at times, but he doesn't. And you are God's precious daughter and certainly not worthless!
Is there someone else close to you that you can tell how you feel, sometimes someone who knows you both may be able to help get through to him.
I'll say some prayers for you in the meantime

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If your boyfriend feel he needs to say such horrible thing to you, you might want to reconsider his relationship staus with you. No person should have to endure cruelty like that.

Your a creature of God, made in His image, to be Loved with Christ's love. If your boyfriend can't deomnstrate the love of Christ, perhaps you need to look for one that can.

God answers many prayers in ways we don't understand. Maybe this is His way of getting you to open your eyes. I don't know. I do know God has a love in store for you that's much greater than that abuse...and abuse it is if he is verbally assaulting you.

You have to respect yourself enough to get out of that situation. You're a lovely person, worthy of being treated righteously, I know....God created you.
 
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