I am moving to another state, but need guidance and prayer.

[Sahara1493]

Hi, my name is Sahara I'm 20 years old. I live in Massachusetts, and have accepted Christ when I was 17, though I have never been baptized. I made a friend online that started as a romantic relationship with a man in Texas. We have had very similar situations in life, and are in the same unstable situation now( we are struggling financially and live in unstable homes).It's a long story, but I truly care about him, and I've had feelings for awhile that he knows about. He's asked me to move to Texas with him and recently sprung on me that his girlfriend of two months(she lives in Malaysia right now) will be living with us as well. I really would like to help them out, but I don't want to be hurting the whole time I am there. Please pray that my head and my heart can be in the right place, so I can help my good friend without hurting myself.

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

Wow, this raises a lot of red flags as a Mother of 2 grown children and 2 grandkids.
This guy will be using you for whatever 'help' you can offer him.
Stay in MA, cut ties with this guy, and work towards getting a job and some good friends.
Someday someone will want you for YOU, and not need anything but your love.
That's just my humble opinion, but out of concern had to express it.
Please be safe and THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU MAKE A MOVE DOWN THERE!
God bless you

 

[christsoccer]

Hi, my name is Sahara I'm 20 years old. I live in Massachusetts, and have accepted Christ when I was 17, though I have never been baptized. I made a friend online that started as a romantic relationship with a man in Texas. We have had very similar situations in life, and are in the same unstable situation now( we are struggling financially and live in unstable homes).It's a long story, but I truly care about him, and I've had feelings for awhile that he knows about. He's asked me to move to Texas with him and recently sprung on me that his girlfriend of two months(she lives in Malaysia right now) will be living with us as well. I really would like to help them out, but I don't want to be hurting the whole time I am there. Please pray that my head and my heart can be in the right place, so I can help my good friend without hurting myself.

Praying for you

 

[Sahara1493]

Wow, this raises a lot of red flags as a Mother of 2 grown children and 2 grandkids.
This guy will be using you for whatever 'help' you can offer him.
Stay in MA, cut ties with this guy, and work towards getting a job and some good friends.
Someday someone will want you for YOU, and not need anything but your love.
That's just my humble opinion, but out of concern had to express it.
Please be safe and THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU MAKE A MOVE DOWN THERE!
God bless you

What exactly do you mean by 'help'? His girlfriend would be there, too

 

[Sahara1493]

Praying for you

Thank you

 

[Scott1979]

A little confused here. You said in the beginning you started a romantic relationship but toward the end you said friend. Could you clear that up please??

 

[Sahara1493]

A little confused here. You said in the beginning you started a romantic relationship but toward the end you said friend. Could you clear that up please??

Sure from February- June, it was a romantic relationship. Then in mid- June he wanted to be friends,without really giving an explanation. Since then, we've been friends.

 

[Susie~Q]

Wow, this raises a lot of red flags as a Mother of 2 grown children and 2 grandkids.
This guy will be using you for whatever 'help' you can offer him.
Stay in MA, cut ties with this guy, and work towards getting a job and some good friends.
Someday someone will want you for YOU, and not need anything but your love.
That's just my humble opinion, but out of concern had to express it.
Please be safe and THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU MAKE A MOVE DOWN THERE!
God bless you

I have to agree with this poster. It does NOT sound good. It sounds like a mess to me, one where you could really get hurt, please stay in MA, cut all ties, I am sure the Lord has a "special someone" for you, just be patient.
I am not an expert on things, but this, I feel led by the Lord to say, as the above poster said, "think long and hard and pray before you make a big move like this, it could change your whole life, and NOT for the good.

 

[Sahara1493]

I have to agree with this poster. It does NOT sound good. It sounds like a mess to me, one where you could really get hurt, please stay in MA, cut all ties, I am sure the Lord has a "special someone" for you, just be patient.
I am not an expert on things, but this, I feel led by the Lord to say, as the above poster said, "think long and hard and pray before you make a big move like this, it could change your whole life, and NOT for the good.

thank you, that last sentence it's really making me think. I hope my head and heart will cooperate and give me peace.

 

[Susie~Q]

I will be praying for you and I know everyone else will be as well.

The "enemy" does not want you to have peace, so be on guard for a lot of "mixed" feelings, just remember, our Lord does not give us a spirit of confusion, but He gives us one of a sound mind and peace, it is a good rule to go by.

I saw your home page, you are a very pretty girl, do not let this guy take advantage of you.

 

[Sahara1493]

I will be praying for you and I know everyone else will be as well.

The "enemy" does not want you to have peace, so be on guard for a lot of "mixed" feelings, just remember, our Lord does not give us a spirit of confusion, but He gives us one of a sound mind and peace, it is a good rule to go by.

I saw your home page, you are a very pretty girl, do not let this guy take advantage of you.

Wow, thank you!
I never thought of it that way, but I agree, only the enemy would give me mixed feelings

 

[Susie~Q]

The "enemy's" favorite line is: "if it feels good, do it" that is such a lie. Sometimes the Lords way is not easy, but in the long run, it is the best, and even if you are not happy at first, you will be, and you will have that inner peace that He gives to His kids that obey.

 

[Heiress2Throne]

Heavenly father in the name of Jesus, we come against every demonic plan and plot sat on this life. We pray that your intervene and let your will be done. Cover her in the precious blood of Jesus and with your mercy and grace all the days of her life. Amen.

 

[Susie~Q]

Heavenly father in the name of Jesus, we come against every demonic plan and plot sat on this life. We pray that your intervene and let your will be done. Cover her in the precious blood of Jesus and with your mercy and grace all the days of her life. Amen.

I stand in agreement with this. Amen and Amen

 

[Sahara1493]

Heavenly father in the name of Jesus, we come against every demonic plan and plot sat on this life. We pray that your intervene and let your will be done. Cover her in the precious blood of Jesus and with your mercy and grace all the days of her life. Amen.

Thank you

 

[Sahara1493]

I really want to thank everyone for the advice, I've read this forum a bunch of times and yesterday I've decided not to go! I know it will be for the best, even though he did try and make me feel guilty about my choice, I stood my ground. I'm so thankful for the help I got thanks again!

 

[brinny]

Bless yer heart, praying that God pours out His favor and blessings on you like rain, and that He grants you extraordinary wisdom, discernment and clarity. Father may it be so, in Jesus name, amen. (((hug)))

 

[LoricaLady]

You are not responsible for that guy, much less his girl friend. He has a lot of nerve. The pain he can cause you now will be much less than what could accumulate, and increase, in the future. He sounds like a major user. Ditch him. You don't need that. Treat yourself with dignity and respect dear one, or no one else ever will. Praying for you to get wisdom and insight and to be led to people where you can have healthy relations.

 

[Sahara1493]

Bless yer heart, praying that God pours out His favor and blessings on you like rain, and that He grants you extraordinary wisdom, discernment and clarity. Father may it be so, in Jesus name, amen. (((hug)))

Thank you

 

[Sahara1493]

You are not responsible for that guy, much less his girl friend. He has a lot of nerve. The pain he can cause you now will be much less than what could accumulate, and increase, in the future. He sounds like a major user. Ditch him. You don't need that. Treat yourself with dignity and respect dear one, or no one else ever will. Praying for you to get wisdom and insight and to be led to people where you can have healthy relations.

Thank you so much Wisdom is a key word of something I need,since I'm only 20.