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I always fall for the wrong guy

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Silver Speak said:
I know what you're talking about and, well, I have a weird taste anyway. So, when another mr. wrong comes along, you just have to tell yourself "I can do better". ^_^ (Not meaning a 'better' person but a better match.)

The person God wants you to have and match up with!! :thumbsup:
 
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I think the other person part of it is the hardest. I just went through a normal 2 year high school relationship. She spent 2 years telling me she loved me and stuff and then just cut if off this weekend saying she didnt. The problem is love comes from God; so shouldnt it be unconditional, like his, as my love was for her? Maybe she didnt understand this at the beginning as she wasnt a believer.

When your friends tell you it is not wise to date an unbeliever, and the person discipling you tells you "missionary" dating never works out; it is true. It is hard to change a relationship a year into to a relationship focused on Christ and not each other. It hurts, but pain is just weakness leaving the body. The only good I see out of it is now she is a sister in Christ, and now I can get back on the path God set me on 2 years ago, that I so wrecklessly abandoned. Im glad it is God that will always be there for me.
 
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Silver Speak said:
Exactly. You're free to pick anyone you want (anyone who wants to pick you, preferrably) but freedom brings responsibility.

As well as if you choose the wrong person, it may have serious consequences!!
 
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