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The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.
If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.
If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.
Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist
He knows this and if I was thinking of myself before, that's not the case anymore. I just wonder if I should check on him every now and then to be sure that we are still on the same page or path. We are fine and have decided to move on, but I wonder if I should be a non-judgmental accountable partner to him by asking him if he's OK or is he considering this again. This will be only when I notice we have gone a couple of days past our regular together time.
Here is your problem
Nobody 'owns' anyone else
Realising this will rid your brain of jealousy and possessiveness
Good luck
peace x
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Hello all, I hope your day is going well. I thank God for another cold day. I joined this forum because I needed a christian perspective on an issue that I have with my husband. My husband and I love each other very much and have three beautiful children. We have been married for 7 years. It's been a challenging journey, but God has been good to us. Just Monday, on our anniversary, I discovered a journal of pictures and videos of my husband. He had taken pics of <staff edit> himself and saved them in a special folder on our computer. Along with these, he had videos of himself <staff edit> on different days. <staff edit> Looking at the dates, he had been doing this from last year Oct 2009, after the birth of our last baby until July of this year.
I came across it by accident because i was looking for our wedding album to post on facebook. Anyway, I was hurt and shocked and disappointed. We are Christians and he is a great guy. I confronted him and he confirmed it. He said we were not intimate for weeks, sometimes months and it seemed that when he approached me, I shut him down. The worst part is that he posted these images and videos online and people liked them and gave him compliments, which gave his ego and self esteem a boost. He said he stopped because we got to a better place.
Bottom line, after a long talk last night, I told him I felt cheated on and my trust and my respect were broken. He said he never meant to hurt me and that he will never do this again.He deleted the pics and was very apologetic as well as embarrassed. We plan on taking it one step at a time.
How do I get past this? I'm I over thinking this by feeling like he cheated. His body is mine and the fact that he shared it with others, was extremely hurtful and disappointing. please give me advice that is nonjudgmental.
Thanks and God bless.