I have been married 22 years - since this time in 2007 my husband cheated on me and was in a romantic relationship for about 5 months til it was discovered by both parties and the woman he cheated with was forced to quit work by her husband. Long story short - it was it 2014 that me and my husband had an altercation - he has anger issues - another long story - I ended up being so hurt by it that I asked him to move out and get help that I didn't feel safe any longer - in this time - it was a few days later he contacted his above affair recipient and she told her husband and he contacted me. He said it was to talk but I knew better. We spent the summer apart and I did some really sole searching and he got some help through the church for his anger issues, etc. We got back together slowly at the end of September and decided to renew our vows in December to start fresh wipe a clean slate. Well here it is September - one year later and I have (always from the first affair) been able to "sense" something is wrong. So I have been looking at his emails and sure enough he is flirting with a woman at work. It has been "couldn't concentrate in our staff meeting today and don't know why I have this connection with you but I do type stuff and good seeing you today, etc. I am just devastated - I haven't spoken to him yet I want to give it some time - I have been seeking God continually and crying out to him. My husband knows something is wrong but I just tell him I don't feel good. I am going to confront him but I just want to do it in the right way with no sin on my part and less anger. I would really and could really use some advice and help. I feel I can't trust or respect him any longer and feel it's time to move on. I know it's not what God wants but I am tired! I am praying for him and the situation continually