Hurting Hearts!

[MagicLady]

Someone here sent me something the other day that I have to say hurt, and at the same time was so well writen and I know why it was sent and felt like it was to help me.

Letting go of someone you love is one of the hardest things to do. because then are you the one that walked away. That is not what I want. Because of my situation several people have closed me out. One being my daughter I can not repair this without being open and something comes to pass, and at this point it does not look like it will, there is no way for me to fix things with her. My heart is breaking.

I have begged and pleaded to stay in someones life and that person seems to be able to walk away. I am not saying that is does not hurt but I seem not to be able.

I feel so worthless and hurt. Please just pray my broken heart will be mended and that the people I love will be happy despite me. I am to the point I no longer even care about my happiness as long as the people I love don't hurt. Pray that I just learn to accept I am not worth the fight and I stop hurting people I love by hanging on to someone who doesn't want me.

After all Alone is not that Bad (maybe if I tell myself this enough I will believe it)

To the person that sent me this. Thank You I am sure me letting go is best for every one else.

A word For You


Let it go for 2005
-by T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.



I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that,
They came out from us that it might be made manifest
that they were not for us.
For had they been of us,
no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]


People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you,
you can't make them stay.
Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person,
it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's
part in your story is over so that you
don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something.
I've got the gift of good-bye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.

It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!




If you are holding on to something
that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ..LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your
worth...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction ...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents .
LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude...
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new
level in Him...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship....
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves..
LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ....
LET IT GO!!!




If there is a particular situation that you are so used to
handling
yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you
need

to...

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a new thing for 2005!!!
LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then
LET IT GO!!!


"The Battle is the Lord's!"

The Lords Prayer

Our Father,
who art in Heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name,
Thy Kingdom Come,
Thy Will be done,
on Earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day,
our daily bread
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the Kingdom,
and the Power,
and the Glory,
forever.

Amen.

 

[Kehaar]

Magiclady, I'm very sorry you are feeling so torn up over this.

You are NOT worthless and your hurt is understandable. I've been in a similar situation in the past and I found the loss almost unbearable, I do understand where you're coming from.

I pray that you will feel strengthened and that your pain will ease over the coming days and weeks.

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. (Psalm 34:18)



Astral

 

[JWBZ SVT]

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)


The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. (Psalm 34:18)



Astral

I have experienced God's mercy as quoted above.

MagicLady,

He will not fail you! I tenderly pray that God will lift you up and comfort your soul down to the very depths from where it starts.

 

[devoted daughter]

May the Lord be with you and give you strength and joy; may broken hearts be mended and may peace be restored. INJC

 

[MagicLady]

I would like to say first Thank You for praying. God is working and I am asking you to continue praying. At this point I can not let go. I feel (know)that this is the person I belong with. Please Pray that God will lead us and comfort us in this situation and give us the strength to do what He has told us to do.

My heart hurts and I don't know how to stop the pain.

Thank You For Your Prayers for Me and My Mate (and OUR kids)

 

[If Not For Grace]

No one said it was easy, but when you are hurt sometimes you go to the Doctor and the first thing they do is give you a shot. Then they say use it or lose it, Walk, exercise, get that heart rate up.

Why do we accept it from our physicians but not our healers?

TD JAKES IS A GOOD MAN (He's flawed and will tell you so, kinda like Paul, Peter, Moses, David etc.) Listen to the Bishop...

 

[wingsaseagles]

If you have prayed about it and you know that you belong with this person then do not give up hope. There are times in this life when others say to let go that it is not what God is telling us to do. Have you prayed about this with your mate? is your mate willing to pray together? If not then maybe your prayer needs to be for God to soften your mates heart and for God to give you both the strength to work though this together. My advice to you is take it to our Father and ask Him to show you and your mate the way. Life is too short to hurt the ones you love. Tomorrow may be too late.

Praying for you and your mate to recieve the strength and wisdom from God to make it though this hard time. If you truely are meant to be together letting go is not the answer. It will only cause more pain.


13 I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living. 14 Wait for the LORD ; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD .