Hurt Feelings!

[aflower4God]

Hi there all!

I just want to let you know that people do have feelings. When you are chatting with people all over the net you are NOT talking to a computer that has no emotion but you are indeed talking to a real person.. unless of coarse you are talking to chrisbot . Anyway, I have experienced people blowing me off just because I would not answer their question that I found to be personal. They think that just blowing someone off is okay that the person that they are blowing off does NOT have feelings, but guess what THEY DO!... I am just sending this friendly advice the next time someone thinks it is okay to just blow someone off with out any explination, I can tell ya I KNOW that Jesus would NEVER blow someone off like some do.
Some people are very sensitive to that, and it does hurt feelings!!!! Some of you may be really tough about this, well Praise Jesus that He blessed you with such a TOUGH shell, BUT at the same time Jesus gave some of us a thinner shell that takes time to build! Please realize that before you post things!

Please remember the GOLDEN RULE!

I guess I am bless that I have only 1 friend here ON CF who talks to me daily and has not blown me off and has a GREAT BIG HEART!!!!!... SHE is a kind sister in Christ!!!! I am blessed to have her as a friend!

God bless you all!

 

[lmarie23]

I'm sorry that you have had your feelings hurt, but glad that you have found a friend here on CF who you can have a good relationship with. If you want someone to talk to who will respect your feelings and listen, my door is open. Feel free to PM me .

Like you, I have a thinner shell and get hurt easily, so I understand what you are talking about.

 

[united4Peace]

's to you

Ive been hurt many times....
I wish I could be tougher...have a harder heart
at times

 

[aflower4God]

Thank you all for your kindness!!!!

I'm sorry that you have had your feelings hurt, but glad that you have found a friend here on CF who you can have a good relationship with. If you want someone to talk to who will respect your feelings and listen, my door is open. Feel free to PM me .

Like you, I have a thinner shell and get hurt easily, so I understand what you are talking about.

BTW I took you up on your offer and I PMed you

 

[AWorkInProgress]

Smiling just always remember to not allow others to determine your self worth.

There are nights where my MSN friends are going thru a mood swing or just rude. I don't let it get to me and just move on to something intresting. They don't want to enjoy my good company, that is their loss.

I am not saying it's a snap of the fingers to learn. Just remember what it felt like before when it did get to you. Just say it ain't worth all that grief, and move on to something more intresting.

Side note, becareful of putting your full social needs on online friends. It can be attractive since it's like instant gradification compared to getting out and meeting new people. Good to have some friends, but they are no substitute for real deal. I know I found myself more focused 1-3 online friends rather than being myself. All it did was make things worse cause I build myself around them. Better to focus on things that intrest me and build on them, than be a slave to the hope that someone might be online to talk to.

 

[aflower4God]

Smiling just always remember to not allow others to determine your self worth.

There are nights where my MSN friends are going thru a mood swing or just rude. I don't let it get to me and just move on to something intresting. They don't want to enjoy my good company, that is their loss.

I am not saying it's a snap of the fingers to learn. Just remember what it felt like before when it did get to you. Just say it ain't worth all that grief, and move on to something more intresting.

Side note, becareful of putting your full social needs on online friends. It can be attractive since it's like instant gradification compared to getting out and meeting new people. Good to have some friends, but they are no substitute for real deal. I know I found myself more focused 1-3 online friends rather than being myself. All it did was make things worse cause I build myself around them. Better to focus on things that intrest me and build on them, than be a slave to the hope that someone might be online to talk to.

James, you are a very wise person, Your words are full of great wisdom and I will try to do what you said about this!!!!...It is hard but it is RIGHT!

Thank you for your words james!

 

[AWorkInProgress]

James, you are a very wise person, Your words are full of great wisdom and I will try to do what you said about this!!!!...It is hard but it is RIGHT!

Thank you for your words james!

Your welcome, anything for one of my sisters.

It is, go easy on yourself. You'll get it down eventually.

 

[mushowani]

a real eye openner!! hope you will heal soon

 

[mushowani]

set the world ablaze with smiles and let God take away the pain. There is also one friend who will never let you down, who will never get fresh with you, BUT who will always cherish, love, embrace, and understand you.... the firend JESUS

 

[ShyFlower]

smilingheart:

Sorry to hear about you being blown off. *hugs* I think all of us go through that many a time in our life. It can never be easy to handle. There is always someone to quickly help us lift ourselves back up though.

I myself, though I get my feelings hurt quite a bit, like being sensitive. It can make moments so hard for me at times, but I wouldn't change that about myself even if I could.

 

[aflower4God]

Thank you all for your kind words!!! You all are really a GOOD support!

JAMES, I wanted to say to you I have prayed to the Lord to help me through this, and I asked the Lord to show me how to be like you wrote! I can feel it working a wee bit but hey these things take time and LOTS of prayer!

THANK YOU ALL once again!

 

[Jo1]

Hi smilingheart im so sorry this has happened to you friend. unfortunately some people are so insensitive its unbelievable. i know how hard it is when peope hurt you. you know me friend, im very sensitive too! well done for sharing. Remember youre never alone you can always pm me. God got something great for you sweetie. love you Jo

 

[aflower4God]

Hi smilingheart im so sorry this has happened to you friend. unfortunately some people are so insensitive its unbelievable. i know how hard it is when peope hurt you. you know me friend, im very sensitive too! well done for sharing. Remember youre never alone you can always pm me. God got something great for you sweetie. love you Jo

Hi there Jo!!! I want to say a BIGGGG thanks for your warm comments and you are so right on!!!! God bless ya and know that I am ALWAYS there for you too!