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Human behaviour that you hate

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This thread is about human behavior you hate so much you have to calm yourself lest you start entertaining less than charitable thoughts about a person doing one of them.

Here's a partial list for me:

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Hypocrisy
Plagiarism
Corrupting children
Arrogant/boastful behavior
Insincere Flattery, for social or popularity purposes
Lying and/or Manipulation for evil ends
Religious Pharisee(ism) and elitism. Example: "I say frick, and you say F***", but my word is more clean than yours even though the thought behind it is the same"
Armchair soldiers who cheer violence between peoples or nations
 

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This thread is about human behavior you hate so much you have to calm yourself lest you start entertaining less than charitable thoughts about a person doing one of them.

Lying tops them all. Without honesty, none of the others can be addressed.
 
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Homophobia or hatred of people based on gender identity or sexual orientation.
Closemindedness. Not willing to hear another person out or consider the fact that their opinion on something is just as valid as yours.
Dishonesty.
Laziness. Not in the procrastination sense, but more in the no motivation to do anything in life other than sit there. There's a world to discover. Things to do.
 
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This thread is about human behavior you hate so much you have to calm yourself lest you start entertaining less than charitable thoughts about a person doing one of them.

Here's a partial list for me:

Playing favorites
Hypocrisy
Plagiarism
Corrupting children
Arrogant/boastful behavior
Insincere Flattery, for social or popularity purposes
Lying and/or Manipulation for evil ends
Religious Pharisee(ism) and elitism. Example: "I say frick, and you say F***", but my word is more clean than yours even though the thought behind it is the same"
Armchair soldiers who cheer violence between peoples or nations


People of the morbidly obese variety who try to cram into clothes meant for people of the anorexic variety. I don't want to go out in public and see someone who looks like any part of them is a sack of potatoes....
 
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MehGuy

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Hate
Abuse
Manipulation
Dramatising
Selfishness
Willing ignorance
Prejudice
Discrimination
etc

Describes me to a tee.

I think we should go out.
 
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I agree with those, and there is another thing that I can't really think of how to call it but I've noticed it being a very common thing for men when I was dating.

I would ask something in genuine curiosity and they would get all flustered and say "if I tell you that you'll get mad at me."

What annoyed me about that the most is that there is no track record of me getting upset at them over there opinions before but they choose to blame their cowardice onto me.
 
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