how...?

[Imani]

How do you cope when something you thought was going to go your way doesnt...? When the outcome of something seems so horribly injust and you feel like your whole life has been torn to shreads and proven worthless? when youve gone through hell and given up everything in your life for one thing... and even that doesnt go your way.... how do you cope? how do you find the will to go on after having everything torn apart yet again??

sara

 

[shazabella]

I guess all you can do is pray ... easier said than done sometimes but God is always there with you

- Shaz

 

[Wakeup2god]

What Would Jesus Do? - Or more to the point What Did Jesus Do? Trust in his Father God. You can put all of your trust in Him cos He'll never let you down.

 

[Imani]

well it sure feels like He keeps letting me down. sorry. guess im just messed up.

sara

 

[Endearing lil Influenza]

((((Imani))))

have you done any therapy?... or read any self-help books?... there are many christian self-help books on abuse that may be helpful...

I know it's a hard journey... hang in there... you're in my thoughts and prayers

 

[Mr.Cheese]

I recommend Viktor Frankl's "Man's Search for Meaning."
The man surivived four concentration camps and he wrote a book and constructed a therapy about finding meaning in life.

 

[Pilgrim1951]

 

[beetlequeendiva]

Sara, you're not messed up for thinking that God is letting you down - most of us have thought that at one time or another. I will pray for you... keep on keeping on.....

 

[Pilgrim1951]

Sara, you're not messed up for thinking that God is letting you down - most of us have thought that at one time or another. I will pray for you... keep on keeping on.....

That's right Sara. We have ALL thought that God has let us down at one time or another. Anyone who says they have never felt that way, is lying to themselves and to God. And besides that, all of us are messed up, that's why we need a savior. Also those of us who have been victims of abuse, are easy marks for the enemy to come along and keep accusing us, because we already feel like less than a person. However, I am going to believe that God is greater than anything that has happened to me, good or bad, and that he can make something good out of something that was meant for evil (the abuse). God bless you, sweetie. Hang in there!

 

[King of the Nations]

Hi Sara,

How do you cope when something you thought was going to go your way doesnt...? When the outcome of something seems so horribly injust and you feel like your whole life has been torn to shreads and proven worthless? when youve gone through hell and given up everything in your life for one thing... and even that doesnt go your way.... how do you cope? how do you find the will to go on after having everything torn apart yet again??

That depends a lot on what it is you're referring to. Would you mind my asking?

Greg

 

[Imani]

i was mostly talking about results of a court case.
thanks for everyone who responded...

Sara

 

[Gwenyfur]

i was mostly talking about results of a court case.
thanks for everyone who responded...

Sara

God doesn't abandon or turn His back. He does, however, sometimes say "No".

I'm still trying to get ahold of people on your end

Read "I'm Very Special" by Verna Birkey

*huggles*