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How would you react...

Robbie_James_Francis

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I would worry only if she/he mentioned a lack of remorse specifically. In that case, I would do my utmost to ensure my child that remorse is not only unnecessary but deeply harmful.

Of course, she/he would be aware that both of his/her dads were gay, so would feel comfortable coming out. ^_^

Anyway, I would celebrate with my child, as they should be proud of who they are! :clap:
 
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WatersMoon110

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I'd probably be one of those parents who would just say, "I know. And it's perfectly okay. I still love you and I'm happy that you were able to share this with me."

I don't know, maybe a "Coming Out" Party would be in order. *wink*
 
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KomissarSteve

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I'd let him or her know that I love and support him/her, that it's natural and completely okay and that God still loves them, but I'd also make it clear to them that life will most likely be less-easy for them, and they're going to have to learn to be strong and stand up for themselves and what they know is right.
 
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