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What if we could bury you in the headstone?
Please reconsider a wake. It isn't for you, it is for the survivors. I skipped my mother's funeral - I was young, wanted to remember her alive, etc. - I had lots of trouble dealing with her death, Dad died, short (3 or 4 hours) wake and much easier time dealing with his death. The chance to see the body, if possible, makes it much easier to accept the death of a loved one. Honestly.In a KISS casquette. (Casket? Kasket?)
In all seriousness, I just know I don't want an open casquette. I'd prefer everyone to remember me at my very best looks-wise, than all made up like some sort of Madame Tussaud's wax figure.
Then again, I'm not really into the idea of a wake - I'd prefer to be buried/cremated quietly, and then my surviving family have a reception for me.
Other than that, I haven't really thought about it.
I don't even want a funeral. I would rather my family just take the time and money and spend it on something else. Just toss my body in the woods and then head to Disneyland!
They do that in the south too. My SIL tried to make her kids kiss their grandfather in the coffin. Neither one has recovered from that. If they want to, fine, if not don't force the kids.In the Orthodox tradition, people kiss the corpse to bid him farewell. I wouldn't have it any other way.
All we in Virginia need to do is check a box when we get our driver's license renewed. Pretty handy when so many deaths are caused by motor vehicles.But seriously, organ donation (need to get that card someday). Then whatever people want to do with it, I don't mind.
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