How will I know when Im free from the hurt?

[sunshineforJesus]

Thanks so much Gods child,and I really am trying to forget.I do have lots of other friends at church.

 

[sunshineforJesus]

All who responded and helped me out I thank you so much.

 

[Bumble Bee]

Last summer me and a friend got in a really big fight. I'll admit I did alot of damage
by gossiping about her and complaining how mean she was to me. I believe she really was mean to me.
I have tried apologizing to her but she doesnt want to hear it.She says she accepts my apology but
never wants anything to do with me,and will never trust me again or be friends with me again.
I have asked Gods forgiveness and know he has forgiven me,and am in counseling to help me to improve myself. However this happened in august,and it still hurts. It hurts that she doesn't even want to look at me anymore,and I was just wondering when and how I can finally be healed from this wound.

Nothing can make the hurt go away except time. I had a friend cut me out of their life with no explanation a couple of years ago, and when I tried to reconnected it was thrown back in my face. The friend did the same thing to my now-husband. Both of us hurt over it still, but time has dulled the wound and we have ended up just giving it to God. We pray for him and are here willing to rekindle the friendship if he desires it, but we have moved on because there is nothing else to do.

 

[sunshineforJesus]

Thanks so much bumble bee and I do keep giving this hurt to God,and time has dulled the pain but
it still hurts,and mainly because of me knowing I caused it.