How to survive when you loose babies

[hopeless77]

God gave this promise to me that we'll have babies. We waited for this blessing during ten years. So when I was finally pregnant I believed that God didn't forget me. But the blessing became a nightmare. I lost ma babies and I should give birth to two dead babies. And God stays silencious. I cryed to him and I received no answer. Now I'm to old. So how to believe that God is good, that He has good plans and not bad plans and that He always faithfull to his promise. Which hope to have now. Why did he not take my life with my daughters ? Christians must know difficulties as in the world : I know that. But when God makes promise, by his name ! How can He forgets it and forsakes the woman that he called his daughter ?
Anne

 

[Criada]

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry for your pain.
I don't have any easy answers... bad things happen because we live in a fallen world. But that doesn't ease the pain, I know..
Listening, sister, and praying that God will hold you close and comfort you.

 

[ex-pat]

I'm terribly sorry for your pain, I, too, am older and just recently miscarried our first child, and now I wonder if my husband and I will ever be blessed with another of our own. My husband is my greatest blessing in all this. We both know that we will be parents on earth someday, whether through fostering, adopting, or having another child of our own. God can bring children into your life in so many different ways, and remember, your little ones will be there to greet you in Heaven, and then you'll be together always.