Soyeong
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Now this isn't meant as an attack, nor even a personal criticism, honestly, and I like what you have said, but I honestly wonder about the trustworthiness of one that would say "I've changed my mind about many issues." That tells me you were either wrong about many issues in the past, or that you are unstable, and change with every wind of doctrine. I don't know you personally, so I am just speaking hypothetically, with no offense intended. I am thinking just intellectually and in general, not emotionally or to be picking on you specifically. I know not everybody is blessed to start of having good teaching, and have to try to overcome some bad teaching. I was blessed to have good teaching from the start, and have rarely had to change my view. Again, no offense intended.
No offense taken, and I agree that changing my mind on many issues could indicate instability, but that needs to be evaluated against both the length of time that this happened and scope of topics. I've been active on online forums for close to 20 years during which I have discussed a very broad range of topics, and I think that someone doing that who didn't change their mind of many topics would indicate something else. Such a person would not be there to interact and learn, but to express their opinion and to be heard, so they would indicate a lack of ability to do an honest evaluation of their own position and the position of others.
I do not think that anyone has a set of beliefs that are 100% accurate, even those who had excellent teachers, so I believe that there are things that I currently hold to be true that are actually false, I just don't know which things those are. If I am wrong about something, then I want to know, but I need to be convinced of why I am wrong and why another position is correct. There is much, much more that I do not know than what I know and there are people who hold positions on issues that I have never even thought about, much less had the time or interest to research enough to take an informed position. I've watched many formal debates and people do not take a position on an issue when they do not think that they have good reasons to hold that position, so I think it is important to try to understand why people think differently than I do and to try consider whether what they say has any merit.
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