How to forgive myself after a break-up

[myhb90]

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[jjust19]

You poor thing. I'm kinda ashamed that no one else has commented...

Though it was wrong of you in regards to living a worldly lifestyle, it's not unforgivable. Moreover, it's not unforgivable that you made your ex sin. You need to be less reticent (but don't overdo it...) and share your true feelings with him. I also want you to remember that you need to forgive yourself if you want God to forgive you. Relationships are always touchy; being an ex-practicing gay, I know that sometimes sacrifices must be made in order to please God. God may have separated you from him for your/his protection. You need to set things straight with him and move on/make up. I wish you the best.

 

[Logan Musil]

Hi myhb90,
Your post struck a chord in me. I was unable to forgive myself for years. I’d like to invite you to the thread I just started – ‘From Shame to Infinite Worth.’
Blessings,
Logan Musil

 

[joeboonda]

Don't feel bad. You are completely forgiven and forever loved of God in Christ. Let your boyfriend know how you feel, maybe write it in a letter. He will see you are sincere. No matter what becomes of it, its all going to be okay. Trust God, he loves you and knows just what you need and when. He knows all about it and is working for your good. And remember, as Paul said in Phil. 3, to forget those things which are behind, and reach forth to those things which are before.

 

[fdsfndls]

I actually kind of find it hilarious now (apart from the damage) seeing 'good' 'christians' go all out.
I'm your ministering angel because I'm a christian is so nauseating. I've never gone hog wild, but it's better then being a two faced hypocrite in my opinion. Repression is not godliness.

Be real. How can you ever love anyone without it.

 

[fdsfndls]

PS. I've been a 'good' christian. I nauseate myself.

God is love. Let him be him. (your boyfriend)