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How many ex-Christians are there here on CF and reason for leaving Christianity?

Did you leave Christianity? And did you return?


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In the beginning the serpent said,

"You shall surely not die."

Through Peter the satan said,

"This shall surely not happen to you."

Just what is the plot?

Did the satan not want him to die,
if he knew there would be a ressurection.

Thereby losing his power over lives.

IDK, but according to Hebrews 2:14,

it seems something is going on.
 
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Speaking about the Serpent:
clearly, the God(s) were the ones who told a blatant untruth here.
Elohim even goes so far as to proclaim that what has happened is EXACTLY what the Serpent predicted ("The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil.") Also, the fruit is NOT what caused death - keeping Man from eating from another miraculous tree did: "He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever."

I'm sure there are countless ages-old traditions in all Abrahamic faiths rationalising these according to various theologies, all trying to make sense of this whole thing.
But to me, it is perfectly obvious that the account is derived from a tradition that preceded all of these readings, telling a pretty straightforward story:
The gods created man as a lesser mirror image, lacking both the knowledge and the longevity of the deities whom they resembled. They tried to prevent man from achieving that state by prohibiting him from consuming the fruit that would imbue him with said knowledge, and when he gained it, they banished him before he could achieve full divinity through the tree of life. End of story.

It's completely in line with the kind of behaviour you see gods engage in in other creation myths.
The Babylonian deities drowned thousands because they found that mankind had become too numerous and loud. The Greek deities kept mankind huddled in miserable cold because they felt that fire was a divine privilege, etc.
 
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Well, "In the beginning........"

Followed by a brief account is not much to go on.
But it does say the path to the tree of life is blocked and guarded by a revolving sword.

Which does not give much choice however much we would like to think we have a choice.

We know the date of our birth but we do not know the date when we will cease to breath.

It is classified information.

Just like no one knows the hour of the coming of the Messiah.

Am I rambling?

Probably.
 
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Abrahamic monotheism has really been a process of Semitic religion reinventing itself for thousands of years, but this has been obscured until the last few centuries when scholars started to seriously analyze the biblical text.

Ironically, some of the best biblical scholarship I have read comes from Reformed Judaism, as many of their scholars seem the most aware of the mythological origins of much of their religion. Reading about Reformed scholarship on the story of Abraham sacrificing Isaac, for instance, helped me understand the many layers of tradition that we have in that story, and also helped me to understand its significance to Jews (which is completely different from the Christian understanding).
 
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There was two major reasons for me. One was a desire to better understand the bible so I could be a better Christian. The other reason was learning epistemology. These two together brought me to the point of being convinced that the bible could not be true. God may exist, but the bible cannot be literally true and my reasons for my belief were simply flawed.
 
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I pray to the God that I despise so much. Maybe I shouldn't, but....like I said, I don't even pray much anyway so....

Keep praying and pray more for others, it can soften the hate in your heart. I think you still know God loves you and He wants you to love him.
 
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Faith is like a muscle the more you exercise it the more it grows. If you feed only on a bad diet you will lose muscle. I would guess you have read the bible. I suggest also reading the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Reading from page one to last page. You will get a deeper understand as each chapter builds on the other. Skipping around just gives bits and pieces.
 
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I was raised as a Christian and found church boring and uninspiring. At 14 I stopped going to church and don't consider myself a christian. I never chose to join, I was born into it.
 
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I was raised as a Christian and found church boring and uninspiring. At 14 I stopped going to church and don't consider myself a christian. I never chose to join, I was born into it.
You have to be born from above to be a Christian.
If God saves you your life will change
 
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You have to be born from above to be a Christian.
If God saves you your life will change

My life has changed in many ways, huge growth and enrichment. I have no desire to be a Christian.
 
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You have no answer for the sin question. Without a saving faith you will die in your sins.

I don't really have a sin question. I would say that's a very christian centered outlook. For sure I ponder why people do what they do, and understand that the answer is applicable to an individuals life and the context it finds itself in. I can only really fully understand my own life and context, and ponder why is it I do what I do. I have answered that question for myself and feel I understand and empathise more with others as a result.
 
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You have no answer for the sin question. Without a saving faith you will die in your sins.
It's this exact same argument that played a huge part in my leaving Christianity. Thanks for the reminder.
 
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I was raised as a Christian and found church boring and uninspiring.

1) Being born into a Christian family does not make you a Christian, no matter how devout you or that family might be.

At 14 I stopped going to church and don't consider myself a christian.

2) At the age of 14, all you did was stop going to Church, but you never were a Christian, so don't worry about it, you haven't walked away from Christianity at all, you never were a Christian to begin with.

I never chose to join,

3) As I keep saying, don't worry about it, you say yourself you never (CHOSE) to join, well then, you never became a Christian, end of story.

I was born into it.

4) No, no, no, you were only born into a family which openly professed and practiced Christianity, but YOU yourself, you never CHOSE, or BECAME a Christian according to your very own account.
 
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I think you are choosing to split hairs and comment when we are essentially saying the same thing. So we are agreed then?
 
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There is only so much skepticism and whatnot a believer can be exposed to until they have second thoughts about their faith..

You said this 5 months ago but I have just now read it, so the question.

You say in particular, (until they have second thoughts about their faith.)

My question for you is, just what is it you specifically call your faith, that you would, could or had second thoughts about?

By the way if I might, for clarification purposes only, what denomination were you, when you left Christianity?
 
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I think you are choosing to split hairs and comment when we are essentially saying the same thing. So we are agreed then?

No hair splitting on my side.

My point was, you never were a Christian, therefore you cannot ever say you left Christianity.

That is what the title of this thread is asking for.
(People who have left Christianity), while you on the other hand do not qualify.
 
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