When asked this question I always answer with "2". When my husband is asked this quesiton he answers with "4".
Sometimes I feel really bad for not counting his two in with my two, but I just can't.
You see, when he's two daughters were growing up I was never allowed to be a part of their life. I couldn't love them, I couldn't disipline them. If I bought them something I was trying to buy their love, but if I didn't buy them something I was selfish and rude. If I called them my daughters or step daughters I was quickly reminded of how they already had a mom and didn't need nor want another. And the biggest culprit was my husband. He never allowed me in and made it so that those girls grew up hating me.
So, is it wrong of me now to say I only have two children? Should he really expect me to start being their step mom now after 18 years? Because I really don't think I can. Sorry.
Sometimes I feel really bad for not counting his two in with my two, but I just can't.
You see, when he's two daughters were growing up I was never allowed to be a part of their life. I couldn't love them, I couldn't disipline them. If I bought them something I was trying to buy their love, but if I didn't buy them something I was selfish and rude. If I called them my daughters or step daughters I was quickly reminded of how they already had a mom and didn't need nor want another. And the biggest culprit was my husband. He never allowed me in and made it so that those girls grew up hating me.
So, is it wrong of me now to say I only have two children? Should he really expect me to start being their step mom now after 18 years? Because I really don't think I can. Sorry.