Moriah_Conquering_Wind
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Ahhh yes the temptation to crow and gloat when someone else's perceived spiritual bill comes due is always a plague spot for some.
I prefer to take cognizance of how Time and Experience are handling the situation, what the response of the heart is, and if receptivity is present, rather than gloat and crow, offer protection, validation and succor. Gloating and crowing can disrupt the Process and prevent anything beneficial from happening, IMO.
But then again some people are only out for themselves, with no regard to their impact on others' lives. Abuser is not too strong a word to use in those cases where they are quite clearly controlled by an abrasive and intrusive impulse simultaneously.
I prefer to take cognizance of how Time and Experience are handling the situation, what the response of the heart is, and if receptivity is present, rather than gloat and crow, offer protection, validation and succor. Gloating and crowing can disrupt the Process and prevent anything beneficial from happening, IMO.
But then again some people are only out for themselves, with no regard to their impact on others' lives. Abuser is not too strong a word to use in those cases where they are quite clearly controlled by an abrasive and intrusive impulse simultaneously.
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