How long have you been single ?

[Orange Crow]

I always think it's funny to think the person you're going to end up with is out there somewhere... It's quite exciting really! I wonder what they're doing, and if they're wondering who I am.

I can relate to that, been thinking that sometimes as well. Interesting things

 

[TheGirlOnFire]

sometimes this site doesn't work

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i just learn this lol

I always think it's funny to think the person you're going to end up with is out there somewhere... It's quite exciting really! I wonder what they're doing, and if they're wondering who I am.

Hahaha i do the same, actually when walking home last night, i could see the whole of Glasgow, we live on a high hill and i was like oh the one is out their tonight somewhere doing something... thought it was just me phew am not that mental lol

 

[sehnsucht9]

About a year.

 

[GraceDaily]

10 years and not through choice. Really fed up with it now!

 

[orangeness365]

Except for three months, I've been single my whole life. I'm on the fence about never bothering to get married or whatever, just because 40% of marriages end up in divorce, so they must not be that great. I mean, if you marry mr. perfect, then you're in luck! But the truth is there are all different types of relationships out there that don't involve sex that can still be close, that i wonder if it's really even worth it. It's a lot of commitment, and if you marry a jerk, then you have made your life just that much harder. Plus, there are just very few people I trust, and I don't know if I want to even bother finding another.

 

[Ubuntu]

Hmm... I guess I've officially been single all my life. I've left my future in the hands of God and I'm sure that with time I'll find someone if he wants me to get married.

There's no reason to worry!

 

[Neve]

Although I've dated some, I've been single all my life. I have yet to meet my better half.

 

[hawkeyelovejs]

I've been single 75 years now... Okay, I lied. I've been single for almost 6 years now.

I am not enjoying it. I really wanted to find someone to share my life with, but I am slowly giving up on that hope. Maybe it's just not in the cards for me, and I'm learning to accept that. It means God has a better plan.

I posted before I read the responses. This is a really fascinating thread, OP! Well done!

 

[Gnarwhal]

I've been single 75 years now... Okay, I lied. I've been single for almost 6 years now.

I am not enjoying it. I really wanted to find someone to share my life with, but I am slowly giving up on that hope. Maybe it's just not in the cards for me, and I'm learning to accept that. It means God has a better plan.

I posted before I read the responses. This is a really fascinating thread, OP! Well done!

To be honest, whenever I've given up has usually been when things come together. The harder we try the less likely we are to meet someone worthwhile. Plus meeting someone when you're in your thirties sounds great, because your past all the immature, pretentious nonsense and you can accept each other for who you really are. Now that's what I'm talking about!

 

[JackofSpades]

So how long have you been single ?

I have habit of developing relationships which are on grey zone, somewhere between friendship and relationship. Because of that, I can't really say how long I've been single.

Are you enjoying it ?

Yes. But that doesn't mean that I wouldn't enjoy relationship aswell. I just need good one to trade my comfortable single life away.

Or are so wanting to meet the person ?

I have heart for romantic tragedy, so I believe it's possible I've allready met her.

We probably met at some random street, accidentally made eye contact for second, and we both got mysterious "there is something different about this person, and I need to know what it is" - feeling, then we both were too busy (she) or too dumb (me) and ignored the feeling and went our separate ways and it was over before it ever started. I don't know her name and she doesn't know mine. The universe has decided not to forgive us our lack of situational awarness, and we will never get second chance to meet again and we're both doomed to be unhappy for rest of our lives. The end.

 

[christsoccer]

always been single. never had GF or any kind of relationship... hoping that changes someday soon but not real worried or concerned about it.

 

[Jesse2014]

All my life. I am too wierd.

 

[ks777]

I think I had a girlfriend for about a week in 2013, I didn't really like her though. Way too much messaging, and if I take too long to reply she would spam my inbox with random emoticons until I did.

 

[TonyLee]

I have never married. I have had a few girlfriends for a short time but that's it. My last date was around the first part of June of 2003. I will never have anyone, so I have gotten used to it.

 

[Creek]

I've always been single, unless Jesus counts

 

[ErikaChristine]

Over four years.

 

[mambo84]

My whole life. I'm neurotic and lack confidence, especially anything to do with intimacy. God doesn't help and people at church make fun of me. I have absolutely no clue on how to be a man, which I've been told I'm not much of. I have found secular psychology to be more helpful recently than anything at church so I've pretty much given up on being a serious Christian. The Bible is full of backwards crap anyway, stoning women for premarital sex and obsessing over virginity. I don't know why I bother with it to be honest.

 

[Legal_Eagle]

Way too long. I think I may have developed a split personality to keep me company.

^^^^^this^^^^

just over 2 years

 

[MassiCo]

2 months

 

[dayhiker]

So how long have you been single ? over 7 yrs

Are you enjoying it ? I'm having a great time being single ...

Or are so wanting to meet the person ? Well, I've meet for ladies
so maybe I'm not really single!