How have your lives changed as a result of accepting Christ?
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How have your lives changed as a result of accepting Christ?
I was an egotistical self-centered guy who did drugs, partied a lot, had no qualms about using people for selfish reasons, would take advantage of girls, would use the good will of my family for drugs and such, and I just put myself above everything else. I relished the idea of total freedom from every conceivable authority, and of complete self-indulgence.
After I got saved that all began to change. My focus shifted from self to others, and more than that from self to God. All those things I used to do are no longer a part of my life. This was not a complete overnight change, but from the moment I accepted Christ onward, the path of my life has been going in a whole different direction. I still struggle with sin from time to time, as all Christians do, but it is only by the grace of God that I have changed to the extent that I have. Without this grace i'd probably be dead or in jail right now.
When I follow I am happy. Note my user name; at this point it should be more along the lines of thirdtimesacharm quickly followed by doIevendeserveafourthchance? When I am not following and going about my long list of repeat offences, I find I am usually very unhappy and less able to tackle the hardships of life.
How have your lives changed as a result of accepting Christ?
I have purpose, real purpose, true meaning.
I can understand things I could not before.
I actually care about the next person.
"Opportunity" is not a means of gain, but of giving - and I like it.
Peace has come upon me. Let me me re-iterate this point: I had sought "something" in "everything" back in the past. I was cruising every avenue in search of.. I didn't know what.. just something.. Whiskey, drugs, sex, fitness, sports, meditation, strange religions, occult, whatever. I didn't know what I was looking for, but I was looking for something. I decided it was "purpose" and "truth". Yep, found those, also, but something else happened: peace. Not just a little contenment for a couple hours, but a lasting peace, a baseline of my being by which anything else is a deviation and cause for alarm.
Got no need to sweat things out. "Life" as we know it is kinda trivial in most regards. Seem to always have more than I need without much effort.
Not afraid of dying. that's a bigger deal than one might think at first glance. In the past, there were times I thought dying was a good way of getting out of here; now it is a good way to go someplace else.
I have an insatiable hunger for truth. Maybe that is not really different, but having found some truth, I'm even more hungry.
I'm not half as much the baseball fan I used to be. Not even an eighth, really.
Sex is at the bottom of my "to do" list, where I thought about probably 5 times a minute for some 25 years.
Couldn't care a drop for politics.
I know I'm not the slightest bit however great I once thought I was.
Racism disgusts me.
Patriotism seems so foolish and petty.
I've been moved to do many things that no one, especially myself, would ever have anticipated.
See, most of this is a matter of changes in perspective. I don't stand where I once did, so I see things differently, I think differently, and by God, I am different. I don't know that I am any better, but I am different - and I like it. But I gotta say, this isn't a picnic, this isn't a game. I take this very seriously and studiously. I am always the fool first, and the Bible, no matter what I think, is right. I need to change, not God.
In a way this helps me but in a way it doesn't. I don't want to give up baseball, politics, or patriotism. I was raised with three sacred symbols: the cross, the flag, and Chief Wahoo and probably not in that order.
Please do not misunderstand me on these things. I'm telling you some ways I am different as a result, not things I had to give up. The flag and the Chief.. you may or may not see these things differently in time, they may become less important, more important, or remain what they are to you. For me, it turns out I don't care so much about things that I used to be engrossed with, that's all. A changed perspective.