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How Important Is Docterine When Finding a Mate?

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The other problem is that any denomination can claim their founder was a gift from God as well and their particular beliefs are infaliable... the mormons claim that with Joseph Smith.

And yes, Luther, that could happen exactly that way and I will give you the prime example: The apostle Paul.

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There are two different things at issue in your statement: doctrine and praxis. Drinking or not drinking alcohol is a matter of praxis, not doctrine. At least it should be - I hope it is; it certainly is in my church. An example from my church is that it's praxis to not eat meat or dairy on Wednesdays and Fridays. A person can not do that and still be in communion. It's not meaningless, but it's also not doctrine - like abstaining from wine. However, belief that the Eucharist is truly the body and blood of Christ, in a real (not only symbolic) way is doctrine. A person could not believe something different and still be Orthodox. Another example of praxis is how to chant in church; someone can sing in four part harmony, or in Byzantine tones, or in Gregorian chant (though that's uncommon) and still be in communion. They cannot, however, refuse to believe that what we're chanting is true; that's a matter of doctrine. If somebody were to say that "One is holy, One is Lord, Jesus Christ; to the glory of God the Father, amen," for instance, is untrue, they would not be in communion. But could God still save a person who didn't believe those things? Absolutely!
 
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And yes, Luther, that could happen exactly that way and I will give you the prime example: The apostle Paul.
So someone can be dropped on a deserted island without a Bible (well, the NT at least), and understand Christianity perfectly?
 
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And yes, Luther, that could happen exactly that way and I will give you the prime example: The apostle Paul.

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Read Acts 9. Paul spends several days with the diciples before he even proclaims Christ once in the synagauges.

Do you think he was just lying around or do you think maybe, just maybe the diciples where giving him a crash course in Christianity?

On top of that you have to remember that Paul was a Jew beforehand. He had a very very VERY great understanding of the Old Testament. Throw in the lens of Christ and there is no way he would have to spend years in training.

Remember Paul like all the other apostles could both read and write in both hebrew and greek. Something only well educated pastors can do today.
 
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Luther, Paul also tells us that he was unique in that all of his knowledge of Christ and Christianity was given to him directly from God, not from other teachings.

Reference please

On top of that even if it did happen with Paul doesn't mean it happened with the rest of us. I had a very paul like expeirence in how I converted. But that doesn't mean I could just get it, nor did it mean I could just open up a bible and get it. I had to be taught and so did you.

So therefore teaching and doctrine are absolutly necessary in the church. Not just reading a bible.

Is that how they teach Sunday school in evangelical churchs. Hand the kids a bible and tell them to figure it out?


 
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Luther, how is what you believe in regards to Luther any different than what Muslims believe in Mohammed? They believe he was a gift from God as well and the possessor of all truth for their religion as well.

How is it different than the Mormons belief that Joseph Smith was a prophet and gift from God baring truth?

What about those who follow Calvin?

That is the problem. You are putting the same faith in a doctrine of man that others are putting in the doctrines of man you are against. It is no different. I prefer to put my faith in trust in Christ and Christ alone.

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Coach do you mean that a person with no experience in Christianity could be dropped onto a deserted island with a bible. Read it on that island and understand it completly.

i know a guy who read through the Bible, refused to speak to Christians about what he was reading so as to avoid reading their thoughts/doctrines into Scripture and refused to read Christian books outside of Scripture for the same reason. That was enough to lead him to salvation. Why wouldn't the Bible alone be enough? The Holy Spirit is still able to enlighten anyone who is really searching for truth if all they have is the Bible, no?
 
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When I was a kid I had read the Bible front to back half a dozen times, and used to read scripture EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. Yet I still became an athiest for 5+ years, and would quote scripture from memory to argue against missionaries and Christians... So in my experience, the Bible may be enough for some people, but for others, it's no more compelling than say, the Qu'ran or the Tao Te Ching...
 
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yet you became a Christian in the end, no? Surely you don't truly believe the Bible is just like any other book, if you hold to the doctrines of salvation found therein.

For someone who refuses to believe that the Bible is different from any other book there's no reason the Holy Spirit would push him or her into truth (although looking at Paul's example we can see that he *will* do that for some people). For those searching for the truth the doctrines within the Bible mean life. The Holy Spirit *will* honor that and enlighten. Look at Josiah's example. He did not know the Bible, yet when God's words were read to Him, the Holy Spirit convicted Him. The Bible was enough.
 
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yet you became a Christian in the end, no? Surely you don't truly believe the Bible is just like any other book, if you hold to the doctrines of salvation found therein.

I became a Christian because of the Church (the Orthodox Church). Reading the Bible myself, and knowing it so well is what caused me to leave Evangelical Christianity and become an athiest in the first place. I believe the Bible today because of the witness of the Church.
 
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Great post Mike
 
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so the all church doctrines are ultimately based on Scripture?
 
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Yes. One thing to keep in mind though, the Church was founded by the apostles before the New Testament was even written down. Scripture is part of the tradition of the Church itself...

so if the church is based on Scripture and points people to Scripture, why would Scripture not be enough for someone? Surely there must be something about that book if it was powerful enough to spawn the church you belong to (assuming the apostles did found it, remember what *they* studied) that you say gave you back your faith in God and it continues to point people back to the Bible. Can't be just another book out of many.
 
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so if the church is based on Scripture and points people to Scripture, why would Scripture not be enough for someone?

It depends on what you mean by 'enough'. There have been Saints who were 'saved' and were completely illiterate, and never read scripture... I'd venture to say prayer, faith, and giving up one's life for Christ are more important than 'knowing' scripture.

If scripture leads one to give up one's life for Christ, pray endlessly, and have faith, then yes, it's enough. If scripture doesn't lead to these things, then no, it's not enough.


Like I said, it was the Church that spawned the Bible, not the other way around. The Apostles founded the Church before they wrote the New Testament, and there was no official canon of scripture for 4 centuries...

Can't be just another book out of many.

Of course not. But the Bible, taken outside the context of the Church, can be misinterpreted, abused, etc... Why is there such division in protestant Christianity if they all believe in sola scriptura?
 
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No, I'm afraid, not at all :o I'm sorry.

It seems like you're describing a number of cliques, or clubs, or allegiances. Another allegiance might be "OK", but it's not our "custom" to talk to each other.

I'm sorry. To me, what you describe seems like a very man-made tradition. Almost like a historical feud, that none of the present-day members have reason to be part of. In the Bible, everyone who is saved is in communion with each other. There were no sub-groups among true believers.

The issue he has is that he does not want to take communion in a church that "eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner". Why is that an issue? See the Bible verse above.
Thanks Melissa, you've done an excellent job of explaining it I was previously confused because people were using the phrase "being in communion" to mean "being in unity with" in a rather abstract way, and I didn't know what it actually meant for everyday lives. What you're saying is, it would be wrong to take communion in a church of a different denomination, because taking communion is an act of identifying yourself with that particular church. (Whereas I'd say the act of taking communion is one of remembrance in my own heart, which can be done together with believers of all different sorts... but that's me )

I know And I actually really support Kirk's attitude. His advocation of his beliefs are a sign that he:
a) Really truly believes them, and
b) Cares for other people enough to try to convince them.
However I was merely questioning the basis for his beliefs


I dunno... I kind of get what you're saying. But it seems to me like a lot of man-made distinctions and customs. Levels of closeness, for example.

I guess, to condense what you say into a single sentence, would I be right in saying, "You'd only take communion with people who believe exactly the same things, even if they're not essential for salvation."?

So someone can be dropped on a deserted island without a Bible (well, the NT at least), and understand Christianity perfectly?
Yep, according to Romans We're supposed to be able to figure it out by looking at nature. But most of us can't do that, so the Bible is a huge help
 
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Great post and ditto!
 
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