Dear Jeovana. The 10 Commandments were loving advice to us. God does not force us to follow them, we are free to either follow God`s Commandments, or ignore them. There is also God`s Law of Justice, we know it under: " What ye sow ye will also reap." That teaches us lessons for life. When we sow Goodness and Love, we will reap Goodnes and Love, it will always be in God`s time, and then it will teach us. When we sow ill feelings, or bad deeds, we will sow fitting consequences, always at the best time to teach us. Sometimes God gives us enough time to learn ourselves, or sometimes God will know, that we are best taught straighaway. St.Paul will tell us more about it in Galatians, chapter 6, verse 7.
God wants us to learn to love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. Also, God wants us to love our neighbour, (all others, friends or not friends) as we love ourselves. God is Love, and God wants loving children/sons and daughters. Jesus told us that in Matthew, chapter 22, verses 35-40. AND Jesus told us: " On these two Commandments hang all the Law, and the Prophets." Love is all-important to have; for God first and our neighbour, also. I say this with love, Jeovana. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ. P.S. Selfless Love=AGAPE, everything we do, or say, or advocate, should be done from selfless love.