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- Thread starter Kate16
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Hmm... well I guess if you are too shy you don't! 
That's not very helpful, huh? I guess the other option is to get over being shy, and just do it. However, I think there's something said for waiting for a guy to ask you out... maybe that is old-fashioned, but it just seems so sweet to me when you get to the be one who is excited.
That said, there's nothing wrong with letting him know that you enjoy his company. Just tell him how nice it was when he did X, or that he was so funny when he said Y, or whatever. And there's nothing wrong with inviting him on group outings, etc., to get to spend time with him - and let him see how AWESOME you are. Then he'll want to ask YOU out, and your problem's solved.
That's not very helpful, huh? I guess the other option is to get over being shy, and just do it. However, I think there's something said for waiting for a guy to ask you out... maybe that is old-fashioned, but it just seems so sweet to me when you get to the be one who is excited.
That said, there's nothing wrong with letting him know that you enjoy his company. Just tell him how nice it was when he did X, or that he was so funny when he said Y, or whatever. And there's nothing wrong with inviting him on group outings, etc., to get to spend time with him - and let him see how AWESOME you are. Then he'll want to ask YOU out, and your problem's solved.
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i would probably wait to let him ask me. unless he is soooo shy too and u can tell that he likes u. my boyfriend was extremely shy but he knew if he didn't ask me out that i would go away to college and he probably wouldn't see me again. so he got up the nerve to do it.
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I would suggest you not ask him out. If he wants to go out with you that bad, shy or not, he will make the effort to ask you.
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bumblebee62331
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Ask him.
Verbally.
If you can't ask him like that, write it down. Send him a letter. Not an sms, that's just cheap and dodgy. Make a nice card asking him out. Invite him somewhere, but not so it's "Will you go out with me?" it's more like "Do you want to go see this movie with my friends and me?"
Verbally.
If you can't ask him like that, write it down. Send him a letter. Not an sms, that's just cheap and dodgy. Make a nice card asking him out. Invite him somewhere, but not so it's "Will you go out with me?" it's more like "Do you want to go see this movie with my friends and me?"
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