I have bad self esteem, and doubt God's love and acceptance of me. I know the verses that say that God values us and loves us, but it just doesnt sink inside my mind.
How do you reprogram your mind to believe what God says about you?
Start with Christ.
Study His life as revealed in the gospels and the rest of the New testament.
Jesus Christ is God expressed in a man.
Jesus Christ is the "expressed" representation of God's character, likes, dislikes,
plans, purposes, good news, salvation, grace, mercy and love
as expressed to all men through the God/man Jesus Christ.
Jesus came for the broken hearted, lost and all those who know they
are not perfect and are hopelessly deficient in all the virtues of God's
Holiness and perfection.
You have a lot in common with Jesus if you think you are
not physically beautiful as the world judges outward appearances.
The scriptures declare that Jesus was plain and unremarable in appearance
and that no one would be drawn to Him based on His appearance.
God does not reguard the outward person but He is in love with the
real person that happens to dwell in a body made of clay.
God is in love with YOU, not your abilities, beauty, talents, position
in life or your own perfection or holiness.
God sees you in Christ as who you are meant to be.
God sees you in Christ as His son or daughter.
God sees in you the potential of all you will be in Christ.
God sees in you an eternity spent with Him in love and fellowship.
We look to what is here and now but God looks to the fulfillment
of your life in Christ and the glorious perfection of God's mercy,
grace and love expressed in you as a redeemed and perfected
child of His that will dwell in the very presence of God's glory.
Stop thinking in terms of this temporary life.
Start thinking about the life God has called you to live now that
will draw you closer to God in this life and bring you into God's
plan for your life so you can point others to the call of God for their lives.
How do we renew our minds?
By believing what God says about us and by speaking against the lies
of the devil and telling them to depart and by calling them what they are, lies.
Read God's word, especially the gospels and the words of Christ.
Speak God's word out loud whenever you have a wrong thought that
challenges the truth of God's word.
Pray and ask God to give you His Holy Spirit of truth that will guide
you and empower you to change not in your own strength but
in the strength of God's Holy Spirit that will give you the strength
to over come the lies in your life.
The book Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyers will help you
to understand the battle that the devil wages against all men
as a spirit of lies that can influence people and drive them away from God.