My boyfriend and I want to get married and are ready to get married. We both know that we are ready to get married, the only problem is money. We don't have enough money to have the wedding we want to have. We'd like to have a wedding with all our family and friends there (which ends up being quite a lot of people) We live together right now (for financial reasons) and really don't have any money to spare. Usually it is the brides parent's who will help pay for the wedding, but my parents can't do that right now (they are getting divorced and have no money to spare) I hear all the time that if we are ready to get married then we just should, but we want to have everyone be there, and have it the way we've always wanted...any suggestions?