How do you when God promised you something? Especially questions concerning life/emotional questions?
At the moment, I'm going through a similar testing time. God gives us a dream or vision and includes us in it at various stages according to our level of fellowship with Him, and in His own time. After all, it's His dream or vision which He has decided to include us in on.
As we develop a deeper fellowship with God through Jesus, we realise more and more that the path we are taking is the correct one. Often, it doesn't make a great deal of sense at the time, but when we reflect upon a certain event in context of weeks and months, then the Holy Spirit reveals the explanation.
As we trust God more and Man less, then we really begin to know that God's promise is real and we live our lives with increasing confidence. We step out in faith and trust that we are taking the correct steps.
In my circumstances, the Holy Spirit has continued to fellowship with me even though I haven't been to church in several months and I don't have a Church home.
You see, I know that God continues to lead me into deeper fellowship with Himself ever since He called me when I was a teenager. When you are saved God includes you in His long-term plan, no matter how far we think we might have strayed or how much we think we've sinned. God's grace is greater - wider and deeper than we could ever imagine. His grace is sufficient.
So I'm enjoying life at the moment - on a retreat of sorts, where the Holy Spirit is showing me how to really enjoy God's bounty, to revel in His love, and then to teach others how to do the same.
You see, as Spirit-filled Christians, we enjoy searching for hidden treasure. Every day is a New Day where we are shown the meaning of life, where we are given greater and greater insight into what's happening around us. This is both for our own enrichment as well as we are being taught skills to pass on.
Praise the Lord!