I wrote on this before, but because of the black out in early April, I will repost it here.
How do you go about explaining, to yourself and to someone else, the obvious contradictions of the bible?
* What about the contradictions through all 4 gospels of the resurrection account.
I wanted to answer this "apparent contradiction" because I asked the same question when I was searching the bible.
I've come to realize that if you read the Gospel accounts, it's not that they are contradicting each other, it's that they are completing each other. One gospel will leave out one thing, and then the other accounts will add more or look at it in a different aspect. At first glance, it looks like a contradiction but if you continue reading you will see that each account give you a different understanding of the events happening.
You asked whom did Jesus meet when He was resurrected, it is not whom He met first or last but how He went from meeting the first (which were the women) to the last (the eleven, though I am not sure if He only met them only...I can't think right now.

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In Matthew's account: (Chapter 28)
We are told the women (Mary Magdalene and Mary), when walking to Jesus' tomb -there was an earthquake because a descendant from heaven came and rolled back the stone. The angels told them that Christ has risen. Then as they were heading to Galilee to tell the disciples they met Jesus on their way, they worshiped Him and He told them "do not be afraid. Go and tell My brethren to go to Galilee, and there they will see Me" (Matt 38:10). We have an interruption where they guard tell the chief priest about Jesus' tomb, then Jesus meet the eleven disciples in Galilee. It tells us that some doubted and that is where Christ gave them the great commission.
In Mark's account: (Chapter 16)
We are told the women (Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James, and Salome) brought spices to anoint Christ in His tomb. In this account, we have a dialogue between the women "Who will roll away the stone from the door of the tomb for us" But when they looked up, they saw that the stone had been rolled away-for it was very large (Mark 16:3-4). There they met a man clothed in a white robe and then the man said "Do not be alarmed. You seek Jesus of Nazareth, who was crucified. He is risen! he is not here. See the place where they laid Him. But go tell His disciples-and Peter-that He is going before you into Galilee; there you will see Him, as He said to you" (Mark 16:6-7). It said that Jesus rose early on the first day of the week (this is the same day that the women spoke to the angels, it says "Now when the Sabbath was past" Mark 16:1) and appeared first to Mary Magdalene and she told them. Then we are told Jesus appeared to two of them in another form and the eleven did not believe them just like they didn't believe the women. Then Jesus appear to the eleven and spoke of the Great Commission.
In Luke's account: (Chapter 23-24)
We are told that the women observed the tomb and returned and prepared spices and fragrant oils and that there were "certain other women" with them that came to the tomb bringing the spices that were prepared. Now we are told that the women saw two men and we are told that they bowed their faces on the earth and said "Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but He is risen... (the dialogue is much longer than the other accounts vs. 6-7). We are then told that the went to meet up with the eleven. We are given the names of some of women that were there (Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and other women) told the apostles about their encounter. This is where we told that Peter ran to the tomb and marveled at himself at what just happened. Now it tells us that two of them were traveling on the same day (first day of the week) to a village called Emmaus, that was when Jesus Himself appeared to them and they did not know it. (They have a long conversation with Christ chpt 24:13-27), then they go and tell the other disciples about their encounter with Him. Now He sits at a table with them and finally the eleven understand and Christ's dialogue is different from the other two account. But it is not a contradiction, it is certainly possible that both dialogues occurred but each recorded differently or that Luke summarized the 40 days that Christ was with the disciples. This account writes down Jesus' ascension.
In John's account (Chapter 20-21)
It records Mary Magdalene going into the tomb and then ran to Peter to tell that Jesus' body was not there, Peter and another disciple came into the tomb and in which, after he saw the clothes, "he saw and believed. We are then told that Mary Magadele was weeping and she saw two angels, then one of which turned out to be Christ (which might explain why Mark said that Jesus appeared first to her), then she goes and tells the disciples. We see another account of Jesus appearing to His disciples and told about Thomas doubting because he wasn't with them when Christ appeared to them. The account also tells us how Christ appeared to some of His disciples-(Simon Peter, Thomas, Nathanael, sons of Zebedee and two others went fishing) Jesus met them on shore and they have a dialogue (Chpt 21). Again a different dialogue is presented because the day is actually different from the other accounts.
If you have any time, I think you should give the gospel account another chance and read it again. You have to read the scripture in it's context, it will give you the time frame. Some things seem like it's a contradiction but if you read all four, you can see the holistic approach that they have when combined together and apart. It might say one thing, or emphasize someone but if you put them together, they are not contradicting each other.