Hey tiredwalker....i disagree with what you're saying
Okay.
I feel like those who know Christ DO know that we have an eternity with Him....beyond the shadow of a doubt. We have faith in the Word of God, and the Word tells us that we are to be assured of our salvation if we accept Jesus Christ and keep His commandments. We believe God's Word, and we have a personal relationship with Him, so we are assured of our eternity.
The Koran says that if young men are martyrs for their faith they will go to heaven with a bunch of their own virgins. Many of the young men believe it with enough conviction that they are willing to blow themselves up in public places. That doesn't mean it's true.
I personally believe that Jesus loves me and that I will wake up in heaven, but just because I believe it doesn't mean it's true.
To the OP, like other ppl said....you be humble before God, and pray in honesty that He guides your path, and He will lead you to the right church.
I have found the right church. That doesn't mean I believe everything they teach me. I have a brain and I can question my pastor. If I don't, I could be manipulated (pick a cult, any cult)
I can't speak on other denominations, cuz i've been a Pentecostal all my life....but i can honestly say that my Pastors have never preached anything contrary to God's Word.
They preached your opinion and you agreed. That's good. However, sometimes it is good to hear and consider (not necessarily believe) other people's points of view.
My current Pastor is faithful in following the Word, and preaching it in its entirety.
He is fallible though, so don't be a doe eyed believer. You are in charge of yourself. You will be held accountable for yourself. Don't forget that. Wise as a snake as innocent as a dove.
With that being said, don't pay too much attention to denomination (for now), just seek God for yourself,
I am doing this.
get in His Word and pray...and it'll become easier for you to discern what churches are lining up with His Word, and what churches are not
God gave us all amazing brains to do this. The Bible is not 100% clear on all subjects, therefore, we must use our brains to figure out the God's morals from the text and apply the as best as we can to each situation.
We are social creatures, and we tend to group with people who have similar beliefs, interests, etc. Therefore, most of us will go to a church that lines up with our personal theology. Of course, most of us believe we are right (who would hold beliefs they think are wrong) and will have a the tendency to think that people who believe differently are wrong. That does not make the other person's beliefs wrong in God's eyes, just ours, and who are we to judge. I think that God is a lot more forgiving than most think. Most of us have some of the details wrong, but he won't send us to hell for that.
Ill keep you in prayer....God bless
Thank you. I'll keep you in mine as well. May He bless you richly.