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I guess that you could tell us rather then everyone making the obvious assumption.
I have no clue what you are claiming i stole from others.
Though you've been on this rant for ages.
 
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I have no clue what you are claiming i stole from others.
Though you've been on this rant for ages.

I haven't claimed anything. Let alone that you stole from others. Are you confusing me with someone else? You said we don't know what someone was referring to. Yet. I was suggesting that you could tell us so that no-one jumps to a wrong conclusion.
 
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I haven't claimed anything. Let alone that you stole from others. Are you confusing me with someone else? You said we don't know what someone was referring to. Yet. I was suggesting that you could tell us so that no-one jumps to a wrong conclusion.
My fault.
Nobody, including me, has a clue what I'm accused of plagiarizing.
 
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I agree with the list you gave there, and it corresponds with mine - give or take - but what is worrying me the most is the unwillingness (is that a word? According to my spelling corrector it is.) to listen, the impossibility to dialogue. That is what is worrying me. I see you quite often in the American politics section too. And there these stumbling blocks are even bigger than here.
This morning I saw an article on the Guardian that asks how to discuss with anti vaxxers, and the answer was basically "just don't".
How do you argue with anti-vaxxers who believe they’re on a noble mission? | Myke Bartlett
Yet, we have to. It's a matter of life and death. Their lives, but ours too. So we better do find a way.

Now...we have people pointing in completely different directions. Led by those we've voted into power.
Which is not a bad thing in itself. The bad thing is the conviction that "the other side" just want to destroy their own country and is hence not worth to speak with. And the worse thing is that some politicians, instead of leading their followers to reason, moderation and respect for the institutions, aren't leaders but followers, that follow their most fanatic crowd.
You could ask a hundred politicians what their aims are for the next few years and I think that a depressingly large proportion would say ' to remain in office'.
Such an honesty would be refreshing. A depressing number of politicians can't speak in more than buzz words and platitudes that serves their base.
 
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There is no need to be anti-anything. That creates division. We are to be pro ourselves, the only thinking we can control. Just as with the original Christians they spoke their peace and went their way. No need to argue like in the temples. Everyone should have the right to speak their beliefs but no one should be expected or forced to adhere to those beliefs. All throughout history confrontation has only benefitted the powerful who would oppress. The foolish masses play along, while the wise ignore the game.
 
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Shouldn't it be the task of every science teacher to start with explaining what science is and what it isn't. Should it be part of the curriculum to be able to indentify science from pseudo science?
 
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Any thoughts?
Quit making mistakes, stop firing your whistleblowers, listen to yourselves more and take yourselves more seriously, don't rig votes, don't cater to your sponsors, don't give equal airtime to things you shouldn't, stop Arab phoning Bible terms, stop lighting fires then putting them out, quit rushing off to magazines and newspapers prematurely with half-baked inventions and discoveries, don't put discoveries on Page One then retract them on Page Sixteen, stop with the fake doomsday reports, quit boring us with future schemes that you know you'll never achieve, quit telling us how the rest of the world isn't as smart as you guys, yadda, yadda, yadda, ad nauseum and so forth.

And stop hypocritically telling us how to live, when you guys live the same way.
 
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There's little for it, I suspect. These people are in a "moral panic," moved by fear and paranoia at the ways the world around them is changing.

Rational thought did not bring them to this; it seems unlikely rationality will bring them out.

The panic will have to either die out on its own, or be replace by something new to panic over.
 
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We won't have to wait nearly that long... religious types never run out of things to panic over.

You would think that faith in the Almighty would make people feel more secure... but all observations show the exact opposite.
 
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Simple. People can become experts at anything they wish. If we restore that idea, then we can dispense with the talking heads. (Not the band of course.)

No.

A person can become an expert in anything, yes, but not everything. Not even more than a handful of things.

I have dabbled a bit in Spanish, Latin, and koine Greek, and I know some things, but I'm not an expert in either as the people who have immersed themselves in the study of those languages for decades.

I don't have enough time left in my life to become the expert urologist that my urologist--who is half my age--already is.
 
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Satan is the author of confusion, and he started that a long, long time ago.
 
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To become an expert you need to learn from the experts. There is plenty of reliable information on the internet that point to the experts if you know what you are looking for and if you take time to search for it.

That doesn't make you an expert, that makes you well-read.

Being well-read is a good thing, and arguably a necessary thing, but it's not the same thing as being an expert.
 
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