Doug, if you stay in generalities, I can see how you say that. But, I have been challenging people to not stay in abstract generalities. Consider the specific, so you can see the unconditional general does not translate to every specific general. (1) God chose to save mankind, yet only chose to save Noah and his family and to replenish the earth through them. Does that indicate God loved every individual man or that God generally loved His creation "man" and had specific love for Noah that led God to choosing to start over with him? (Gen 6:5-8) And, look at what Peter says is going to happen to the heavens and the earth, because of ungodly men (2 Pet 3:5-7). God does love His creation man with a "great love" as Scripture says. And, as He said with Noah, some "will find grace in His eyes." But, not all. In the flood, many were killed. Why does Scripture say? Because "God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually." (Gen 6:5). God chose Israel. Yet, killed many within the physical nation of Israel. Paul said: "But with many of them God was not well pleased: for they were overthrown in the wilderness. Now these things were given as our examples, to the intent we should not lust after evil things, as they also lusted. Neither be ye idolaters, as were some of them, as it is written....Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed, and fell in one day three and twenty thousand. Neither let us tempt Christ, as some of them also tempted, and were destroyed of serpents. Neither murmur you, as some of them also murmured, and were destroyed of the destroyer. Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come. (1 Cor 10:5-11) Jude shares: "Woe unto them! for they have gone in the way of Cain, and ran greedily after the error of Balaam for reward, and perished in the gainsaying of Korah and the subsequent plague when Israelites murmured (Numbers 16:23-50). Numbers 16:45 is not the only time that God wanted to save Moses and destroy the rest of Israel. (See also Exodus 32:10-14, verses 26-28--3000 killed, verses 31-35). Jesus also alluded to the time when the bronze snake was to be raised to stop the fiery serpents the LORD sent among the people that killed much people of Israel (Numbers 21:6-9, John 3:14).
So, God loved Israel. True. And, God, though loving Israel, had many people within the nation of Israel killed for their transgressions. The LORD said to Moses: "Whoever has sinned against Me, him will I blot out of My book" in response to Moses' intercession. (Exodus 32:33) In Rev 3:5: Jesus says: "He that overcomes...I will not blot out of the Book of Life, but I will confess his name before My Father and before His angels." Jesus also said: "Whoever shall deny Me before men, him will I also deny before My Father which is in heaven." Jesus is the only way, so if He denies someone before the Father, that can't be good!
Given specific examples, I don't see how anyone can continue to argue that God loves all men equally and unconditionally. It just doesn't match what Scripture says.