How do I stop caring about women constantly?

[bèlla]

the women are supposed to chase you, not the other way around.

Neither should chase the other. Mutual acknowledgement of suitability is usually enough. That depends on your criteria of course.

 

[OldWiseGuy]

the women are supposed to chase you, not the other way around.

"A man chases a women until she catches him."

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

Neither should chase the other. Mutual acknowledgement of suitability is usually enough. That depends on your criteria of course.

that's how it goes when a man is being a man. the women come to him. it doesn't mean that a woman is messed up in some way, it's just natural. a man leads, a woman follows.

this has been lost in this milktoast, soy-boy male culture of today where people don't know what it means to be a man.

 

[bèlla]

that's how it goes when a man is being a man. the women come to him. it doesn't mean that a woman is messed up in some way, it's just natural. a man leads, a woman follows.

this has been lost in this milktoast, soy-boy male culture of today.

While I agree that male leadership is ideal. That doesn’t dismiss the necessity of assertion. The men I date will approach if she stands out. They’ll allow a woman to come to them too. Depends on their motives.

I’m not attracted to unassertive men. I prefer Type-A go-getters.

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

While I agree that male leadership is ideal. That doesn’t dismiss the necessity of assertion. The men I date will approach if she stands out. They’ll allow a woman to come to them too. Depends on their motives.

I’m not attracted to unassertive men. I prefer Type-A go-getters.

you may misunderstand what I mean by "women chasing men" and " women come to him".

I don't care for women who are forward as it reveals feminist tendencies. a woman is to be my helper, not my competitor. if a women is going to constantly attempt to usurp my authority as the leader, she needs to keep walking. there's a reason why the apostle Paul said that a women is to "respect" her husband and didn't use the word "love" like he did for the husband to the wife.

what I mean is a women is going to put herself in a position to be chosen by a man. women give off signals of interest in a man and don't need to hit on him. real men will always have women around them and they will take which one is best for them.

 

[J Daniel]

you need it badly...

Of course - a doctor can only cure what you reveal.

what do you want to do with your life?

Retire @ 45 or very least semi-retired (currently I am 29).

the women are supposed to chase you, not the other way around.

Is that how nature works? I think works both ways - depending on how much that other person acquires that other person.

what do you want to accomplish and achieve?

I wanna be in heaven.

in what way will you leave this world in a better place then when you found it?

I am not Christ - I don't have that power - my word will never reach billions globally. I am just a bog standard individual.

 

[J Daniel]

marry

Explain fully what you mean.

 

[bèlla]

what I mean is a women is going to put herself in a position to be chosen by a man. women give off signals of interest in a man and don't need to hit on him. real men will always have women around them and they will take which one is best for them.

Thank you for clarifying.

Assets always have options. Whether they’re male or female. There’s a measure of subjectivity in all of this. My estimation of “real” and its accoutrements won’t mirror the next.

 

[J Daniel]

It's better to marry than to burn.

Explain what you mean.

 

[OldWiseGuy]

Explain what you mean.

Paul's words. It means it's better to marry than be constantly lustful. Marriage will cure this and one can move on to more productive thoughts.

 

[J Daniel]

Paul's words. It means it's better to marry than be constantly lustful. Marriage will cure this and one can move on to more productive thoughts.

ok

 

[OldWiseGuy]

I have always attracted women (beautiful women), and I've always had a good job. Maybe there's a connection, hmmmmm?
Of course being "indecently good looking" (as one woman observed) didn't hurt either.

Edit. That was then.

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

Assets always have options. Whether they’re male or female.

of course,

the best men will have the pick of the best women and the best women will be taken by the best men. 10s role with 10s, etc, etc.

My estimation of “real” and its accoutrements won’t mirror the next.

the best women aren't going to give males with no ambition, goals, or accomplishments the time of day. they won't even acknowledge their existence and will not put themselves around males like that. a man who cannot protect, provide, and lead is not a man.

 

[OldWiseGuy]

of course,

the best men will have the pick of the best women and the best women will be taken by the best men. 10s role with 10s, etc, etc.



the best women aren't going to give males with no ambition, goals, or accomplishments the time of day. they won't even acknowledge their existence and will not put themselves around males like that. a man who cannot protect, provide, and lead is not a man.

You're describing the "top tier". Most simply "settle".

 

[J Daniel]

of course,

the best men will have the pick of the best women and the best women will be taken by the best men. 10s role with 10s, etc, etc.

That is why I don't believe *love* has anything to do with anything. All about status.

 

[J Daniel]

Edit. That was then.

How old are you?

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

Retire @ 45 or very least semi-retired (currently I am 29).

a woman is going to want to see the tangible steps you've taken to make this reality. nevertheless, you can concentrate on making this happen as it will get your mind off females. chase dreams, not women.

Is that how nature works?

yes, men have women around them always whereas women will always be in the vicinity of these men to be chosen.

I wanna be in heaven.

developing holiness will also get your mind off females. it's all about being on task.

I am not Christ - I don't have that power

you absolutely do have this power! all of us do as it is part of us being made in the Imago Dei(Image of God). making a positive impact on the world you live in is something everyone can and should do. you don't have to be world famous. start with your own family and community.

 

[bèlla]

of course, the best men will have the pick of the best women and the best women will be taken by the best men. 10s role with 10s, etc, etc.

Absolutely.

a man who cannot protect, provide, and lead is not a man.

Some women are willing to compromise in these areas. While I wouldn’t question his manhood, I’d never consider him.

I like patriarchy. I won’t crown a king in name only. He must be the real McCoy.

 

[OldWiseGuy]

How old are you?

79. (but still kickin').

I'm at the age where I have lost all credibility with the younger generations.

 

[J Daniel]

a woman is going to want to see the tangible steps you've taken to make this reality. nevertheless, you can concentrate on making this happen as it will get your mind off females. chase dreams, not women.

It is already there - once the 16 year mortgage is paid off I am done too: simple. She can look at my remaining mortgage payments.

Why people are stuck in rat races working till 79 is cos they chase after objects that are not needed keeping themselves in debt for life - forget that.

yes, men have women around them always whereas women will always be in the vicinity of these men to be chosen.

Hmmmm well you still need to acquire - won't just fall in your lap - unless you are of a certain status i.e. a Donald Trump (a man that has gone through wives like toilet paper) he knows he could dash Melania to the side and get a replace that is even better in a heartbeat - why? Status. This world is about status not love.

you don't have to be world famous. start with your own family and community.

Well I will venture else where too many other religious people in my area - same message over and over - I will be out of my city next month. Do it then.