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EmSchmem said:I personally think you should leave her alone. "fox" or not she is a freshman in high school and has a LOT of time left before she can even think at all about getting serious with someone. Not to mention her "foxiness" is what is calling out to you. That has nothing to do with who she really is.
canadiancarebear said:Once you turn 18, and the other half of the relationship is under 18, that can pose problems...
SirKenin said:Ummm... I have to disagree with you wholeheartedly on the fox part. If you understood anything about the human mating ritual and our carnal instincts, it is very much the physical appearance (everything from the eye color to the shape of the hips) upon which we base our first impressions and what gives us the desire to mate with that person. It is a carnal instinct that is bred into us to ensure that our species procreates. There are plenty of scientific studies to back this up and you can even catch that episode on the Discovery Channel from time to time.
Blue Impulse said:I think canadiancarebear is correct actually.. the maturity level between an 18 year old and, say., a 14 year old is a much larger gap in maturity than the gap between a 34 year old and a 22 year old..
InTheFlame said:As a rationale for a quick infatuation and a few weeks of sex, that's great... but physical appearance seems to be a pretty bad way to pick a life partner. Certainly not my cuppa tea! All the gorgeous guys I've known I may've found attractive on a physical level, but they would've been majorly painful to live with.
SirKenin said:Perhaps, but physical attraction is what forms the first impression and the desire to make the initial contact. The rest comes from dating. Besides, the men that you find attractive the next woman might look at as dogs. That's how science works.