You know another good idea, I just thought of is sign up for a TD ameritrade account and you can use screeners to look for stocks of certian industries, these same companies employ people (obviously there are non publicly traded companies that wont be represented here but its a pretty comprehensive list if they are). Basicly what it boils down to is a company is trying to make dudad X or provide service A so you have to be interested in that dudad or service, if not your not going to be sucessful. Companies are going away from having huge staffs and more to lean and mean teams.
You have to have some passion for something, im sorry I am not familiar with computer software stuff other than being able to program in VB in the course of doing chemcial enigneering. I am going back for a masters in EE so maybe thats something to consider is to try getting on the hard ware end of things like DSP's, microcontrolers and even microelectonics fabrication, power, from what I understand there is alot of work in power right now all over the place.
I have a friend who majored in and works doing computer science and he has had to move all over the nation to all corners other than hawaii, none of us should be so lucky lol. He is trying to get his masters in EE so he has some more stability and can better pick where he wants to live, with your back ground in CS you should have alot of the pre-reqs for EE and it may just be a matter of picking up 10-20 credits at your local university.
As far as doubting your faith welcome to the crowd, thats why its called faith. The simple way to look at it is you dont really have any other positive choices since we all die some day. If you are burning with passion you should get married, maybe working a low end job would help you find a mate, that is actually probably your best chance of finding a mate (that and the internet like craigslist, or overseas) once your in corporate america the women there are power hungry and have to be more cut throat then men to make it and you dont want to be getting romantically involved with that. Its one thing for a man to be working his way up in a corporation since men are geared that way and can compartmentalize work vs home but women usually develope some kind of issues when they are facing the fierce competition, not to say they cant do it but they usually cant function properly in a Godly marriage, there will be to much of a power struggle of who wears the pants.
So maybe this is a chance to find a mate since the corporate thing is not working out yet, and maybe she has some friends that can hook you up, thats how life works, an infinite number of possibilities. Living at home is a strike against you for dating but you have a solid degree and if you have your own ride I think you will be fine, a woman will look past you living at home because she knows you have potetnial to provide and are working (which is persumably how you meet her).
I would strongly suggest looking for a date online, your not going to be on your A game if your dealing with all kinds of sexual frustration, you have to get your own "house" in order so to speak before you can get your head in the game, having a wife at home to take care of your needs goes a LONG ways. I can look at my GPA in my undergrad vs my GPA now in grad school and see a stark contrast because im not sexually frustrated.
People who tell you to get a career going and a house and all that before you even start dating are putting the cart before the horse. Once you get to sucessful you have to start being paranoid of gold diggers and things get harder, plus that means you ahve to build all that stuff up while being sexually frustrated and as you already know that does not work.
You have to have some passion for something, im sorry I am not familiar with computer software stuff other than being able to program in VB in the course of doing chemcial enigneering. I am going back for a masters in EE so maybe thats something to consider is to try getting on the hard ware end of things like DSP's, microcontrolers and even microelectonics fabrication, power, from what I understand there is alot of work in power right now all over the place.
I have a friend who majored in and works doing computer science and he has had to move all over the nation to all corners other than hawaii, none of us should be so lucky lol. He is trying to get his masters in EE so he has some more stability and can better pick where he wants to live, with your back ground in CS you should have alot of the pre-reqs for EE and it may just be a matter of picking up 10-20 credits at your local university.
As far as doubting your faith welcome to the crowd, thats why its called faith. The simple way to look at it is you dont really have any other positive choices since we all die some day. If you are burning with passion you should get married, maybe working a low end job would help you find a mate, that is actually probably your best chance of finding a mate (that and the internet like craigslist, or overseas) once your in corporate america the women there are power hungry and have to be more cut throat then men to make it and you dont want to be getting romantically involved with that. Its one thing for a man to be working his way up in a corporation since men are geared that way and can compartmentalize work vs home but women usually develope some kind of issues when they are facing the fierce competition, not to say they cant do it but they usually cant function properly in a Godly marriage, there will be to much of a power struggle of who wears the pants.
So maybe this is a chance to find a mate since the corporate thing is not working out yet, and maybe she has some friends that can hook you up, thats how life works, an infinite number of possibilities. Living at home is a strike against you for dating but you have a solid degree and if you have your own ride I think you will be fine, a woman will look past you living at home because she knows you have potetnial to provide and are working (which is persumably how you meet her).
I would strongly suggest looking for a date online, your not going to be on your A game if your dealing with all kinds of sexual frustration, you have to get your own "house" in order so to speak before you can get your head in the game, having a wife at home to take care of your needs goes a LONG ways. I can look at my GPA in my undergrad vs my GPA now in grad school and see a stark contrast because im not sexually frustrated.
People who tell you to get a career going and a house and all that before you even start dating are putting the cart before the horse. Once you get to sucessful you have to start being paranoid of gold diggers and things get harder, plus that means you ahve to build all that stuff up while being sexually frustrated and as you already know that does not work.
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