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How do I deal?????

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Hello Ladies,

I just don't know what to do. I feel like I have no support from the Pastors from my church. This is a real hard time in my life and I thought that I could get there help and prayer. I feel like I'm being shund from them at this point. I just don't know what to do anymore. I know I am shy and I don't have many christian friends at this point either. I'm a fairly new Christian and I know that I need help to get through this. I don't know were to turn but here at this point. I need guidance and I also prayer. I know that I am not alone, but it feels that way at this point. I'm :(  at this point because I just don't know what to do. I'm learning how to :pray: but i don't do it out loud and I don't know if I'm being heard either. I would like to thank you all for letting me vent.
 

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i was in a situation like that too.l.. i turned to my friend who wernt christan... and they helped me a whole lot! its nice to have christan friends but just because they have the title of " A Christan" doesnt mean that they wont hurt .. sometimes they might hurt u more.... friends are friends and i dont think relgion should stop u from being a friend. (unless if they believe in killing people is right but thats a different story) \This is part of God's devine plan but dont let someone who want to help you who isnt a christan.. let themm.. it might be the best thing you could do

Bye and God Bless
-Andrea
 
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Hi, I am fairly new but I would just like to extend a little prayer to anyone going through tough times

oh divine source of all love and all light
I love you with all my strength and might
please help me be strong and not stand alone
I ask this of you in awesome trust and love
amen

and if you EVER need to talk, vent or are in need of a little guidance I am here!

God Bless!
 
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I would sure like to know more of this Church you speak of. You said "pastor's". Plural! Are you being "shunned" or do you just feel that way? and why?

As for prayers the Bible is really full of asssurances that God hears His children when they pray! And why would He not since it is His desire and in fact command that we pray?

May I suggest to you, if you are a born again Christian, you will receive great solace and comfort from the little Book of I John. GREAT comfort and assurance. Also from the Words of Jesus as recorded in the Book of St. John.

You cannot read those Books and come away despair. God bless you as you read His Words of Peace to you.
 
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Originally posted by praisegod
thanks very one for your help. I wish that I had someone that I could talk with and get things back on track.

I will be happy to help you in any way I can. Please sit down and prayerfully and slowly read that little Book of I John. Then come back with your questions. OK?

May God bless you and open the spiritual eyes of your heart and give you peace as you absorb His Word!
 
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