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I know "good works" aren't always physical activity, but it's distressing for me when I read Eph 2:8-10 (also John 15:4-6 is bothering me).
Eph 2:8-10 - "For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."
John 14:4-6 - "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned."
1. For the Eph verse - I'm on SSI for high functioning autism, bi-polar, and some nerve problems. "works" is ergon in the Greek which is: "
2. The John verse - I get so caught up in trying to fix myself, and all of my problems and the doctors and the medication problems. I've had dwi's after conversion, etc.. I'll go through a depression and do nothing but watch tv for 3-6 months. I get obsessed with even Christianity and read all day but I doubt my salvation after it's confirmed over and over (I believe and hope so anyway, I don't see any doubt that Christ is the Son of God). But I wonder do I really desire to obey Him or do I try and please Him so I won't be punished. If I love Him I will obey Him. I believe strongly I have saving faith given to me by God, so why has it been 17 years after conversion and I keep ending up at step one looking back at disasters in life. I'm not drinking now, but every year I haven't gone 6 months without getting drunk to try and stop symptoms because medications either don't work, or they slowly stop working. I sold my car so I wouldn't have the temptation to drive to the store, I live with my parents and have no friends. I even lived with some strong sinners for a few years recently and didn't do well there, drank all day every day to get through the days.
I feel like I don't want to be cut off from Christ because I'm scared of hell. If I loved Him wouldn't I be doing better? Why is my love so weak after 15+ years? I keep going through these bi-polar cycles where I have 1/4th the year good, then the rest I'm either neutral/lazy or doing stupid things when drunk (I've been getting help for the alcohol, I'd rather not talk specifically about that, I just wanted to give a main example of my bad works.
So I do more bad works than good, so I'm abiding in Christ 1/4th of the year? And I help no one? When I drank I would send mean and crazy emails to people and wake up not remembering.
I don't want false confidence. I want Christ to work in my life. What is stopping this from happening? How can I abide in Him 365 days a year with the bi-polar and the medications being problems.
My flesh seems to take over and my spirit goes to sleep over half the year and I wake up like I am not terrified. Looking at the love of Christ, any speckle of love for Him is hard to see. If I'm going to hell and I can't do anything for anyone else then I'd rather die now. I don't enjoy this life. I don't want anything from it. I don't want to go to hell either. I do want to be in Heaven. But maybe that's because I am scared of suffering. And it's rough when it's just too hard to go to church and I feel like maybe God is locking me out because I'm rotten and infected and will just hurt others like I always do.
Any thoughts/prayers appreciated.
Eph 2:8-10 - "For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."
John 14:4-6 - "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned."
1. For the Eph verse - I'm on SSI for high functioning autism, bi-polar, and some nerve problems. "works" is ergon in the Greek which is: "
- business, employment, that which any one is occupied
- that which one undertakes to do, enterprise, undertaking
- that which one undertakes to do, enterprise, undertaking
- any product whatever, any thing accomplished by hand, art, industry, or mind
- an act, deed, thing done: the idea of working is emphasised in opp. to that which is less than work
2. The John verse - I get so caught up in trying to fix myself, and all of my problems and the doctors and the medication problems. I've had dwi's after conversion, etc.. I'll go through a depression and do nothing but watch tv for 3-6 months. I get obsessed with even Christianity and read all day but I doubt my salvation after it's confirmed over and over (I believe and hope so anyway, I don't see any doubt that Christ is the Son of God). But I wonder do I really desire to obey Him or do I try and please Him so I won't be punished. If I love Him I will obey Him. I believe strongly I have saving faith given to me by God, so why has it been 17 years after conversion and I keep ending up at step one looking back at disasters in life. I'm not drinking now, but every year I haven't gone 6 months without getting drunk to try and stop symptoms because medications either don't work, or they slowly stop working. I sold my car so I wouldn't have the temptation to drive to the store, I live with my parents and have no friends. I even lived with some strong sinners for a few years recently and didn't do well there, drank all day every day to get through the days.
I feel like I don't want to be cut off from Christ because I'm scared of hell. If I loved Him wouldn't I be doing better? Why is my love so weak after 15+ years? I keep going through these bi-polar cycles where I have 1/4th the year good, then the rest I'm either neutral/lazy or doing stupid things when drunk (I've been getting help for the alcohol, I'd rather not talk specifically about that, I just wanted to give a main example of my bad works.
So I do more bad works than good, so I'm abiding in Christ 1/4th of the year? And I help no one? When I drank I would send mean and crazy emails to people and wake up not remembering.
I don't want false confidence. I want Christ to work in my life. What is stopping this from happening? How can I abide in Him 365 days a year with the bi-polar and the medications being problems.
My flesh seems to take over and my spirit goes to sleep over half the year and I wake up like I am not terrified. Looking at the love of Christ, any speckle of love for Him is hard to see. If I'm going to hell and I can't do anything for anyone else then I'd rather die now. I don't enjoy this life. I don't want anything from it. I don't want to go to hell either. I do want to be in Heaven. But maybe that's because I am scared of suffering. And it's rough when it's just too hard to go to church and I feel like maybe God is locking me out because I'm rotten and infected and will just hurt others like I always do.
Any thoughts/prayers appreciated.