how can I say I don't want it?

[Single Dude]

Christians only. If I don't know anything about something that is good according to the Bible, how can I say I don't want it?

 

[DragonFox91]

I'm confused. Can you please clarify?

I may have an idea of what you mean.

 

[public hermit]

Christians only. If I don't know anything about something that is good according to the Bible, how can I say I don't want it?

Can you say, "I want it, but I want it according to God's wiil"? Not everything that is good, is good all the time or good at just any old time. There is a time for everything under the sun, which means not every time is always the time for all things.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

Christians only. If I don't know anything about something that is good according to the Bible, how can I say I don't want it?

You'll have to be specific about what you mean. I have no clue what you're talking about.

 

[Aussie Pete]

Christians only. If I don't know anything about something that is good according to the Bible, how can I say I don't want it?

You should not normally make decisions based on ignorance. However, there are times that you just have to take God at His word. It depends on context - what is the "good" you are referring to?

 

[TenthAveN]

He is on the single forums, and his profile says he is celibate. He may be talking about marriage, and all that falls under that category.

 

[returntosender]

You all really don't know? I know. We are all adults here I think. He shouldn't and can't spell it out here.
Naive doesn't fit you all.

 

[DragonFox91]

He is on the single forums, and his profile says he is celibate. He may be talking about marriage, and all that falls under that category.

That's what I was thinking.

 

[returntosender]

Christians only. If I don't know anything about something that is good according to the Bible, how can I say I don't want it?

You have to say it because you become one and that is for a man and his wife with marriage.

 

[Single Dude]

In a word yes you got it right. I was just trying to hide it a little but I am not sure if I want it due to ignorance.

 

[Single Dude]

You have to say it because you become one and that is for a man and his wife with marriage.

I don't understand.

 

[returntosender]

In a word yes you got it right. I was just trying to hide it a little but I am not sure if I what it.

I completely understand why you couldn't spit out but I don't understand their naiveity

 

[returntosender]

In a word yes you got it right. I was just trying to hide it a little but I am not sure if I want it due to ignorance.

Well good then, it won't be hard to save it til marriage

 

[returntosender]

I don't understand.

When you marry you and your wife become one. You don't want that kind of oneness with anyone that comes along.

 

[Single Dude]

That is is one reason why I am still single and celibate for all these years of my life let's just say I am not young.

 

[returntosender]

The adult males can take it from here. They are able to answer you now. (snicker) can't help it, most of the men here are too funny.

 

[returntosender]

That is is one reason why I am still single and celibate for all these years of my life let's just say I am not young.

There are counselors for this kind of thing. So you go and get help and when you feel comfortable with what you learned you start dating and when you find the right one you get married and you will then be prepared. Or you can put it in Gods hands and pray that all will go well when you marry. Either way pray about it and expect an answer. You are absolutely not the first man that was a virgin.
Don't be embarrassed about it. You and your wife can always learn together.
God bless

 

[Single Dude]

I am think that is the best for lady in her case that I have some knowledge on the subject but after all it maybe in the Circumstances of that life.

 

[returntosender]

In a word yes you got it right. I was just trying to hide it a little but I am not sure if I want it due to ignorance.

I don't know the other side of it but it comes naturally when shared with a loved one.

 

[Single Dude]

Thanks for your advice.