How are you remembering your loss?

[llghoney]

I want to do something in remembrance of our loss. We did not do anything when it happened due to things were so sudden & then I was sick for a few months afterwards. Do you ahve any kind of ornaments or figurines? It seems like there is not many places to find things to remember our losses.

I pray for each of you!!!

 

[lostndown]

for me, i got a heart necklace with the stone of the month i had the m/c in. i wear it all the time and keep it close to my heart. i made a scrapbook also, so that helps to look at it too. im sorry for your loss too. im praying for u guys.

 

[llghoney]

that is a good idea! I was thinking soemthing like that but for the month the the baby would have been born but I think it would make me sad more than anything.

Prayers & hugs to you as well!!

 

[gracefaith]

There's this silly figurine from a collectible series that I'm thinking about getting. It doesn't have a baby in it, but it has a mouse couple (the series is all mice) comforting one another.

I'm also thinking about getting an ornament for the tree. A silver angel or something.

I have to say, what I really want to do is make a donation to pro-life organization in memory of my baby. He gave me whole new insight into the issue. But a donation isn't really something I can hang onto for myself, though.

 

[llghoney]

Awww that is neat! I think that is a great idea!!

I was thinking along the lines of an angel as well. I did find an ornament online that says "We remember" and has a little foot print that I thought was neat. And then there is a precious moment figurine that is absolutley adorable. If you or anyone want the sites I'll look them up & post them.

I like that idea of a donation as well.

((Hugs))

 

[lostndown]

yeah i agree with her. thats a great idea. i wanna do an ornament too but i think we have an angel one here somewhere. its hard i know hon, i get sad when i wear it sometimes but i hold it close.

im praying for u all. God is holding all of us under His wings.

 

[UnitynLove]

I'm so sorry for your lose, I think the idea of a donation sounds good.

 

[llghoney]

yeah i agree with her. thats a great idea. i wanna do an ornament too but i think we have an angel one here somewhere. its hard i know hon, i get sad when i wear it sometimes but i hold it close.

im praying for u all. God is holding all of us under His wings.

I'm so sorry for your lose, I think the idea of a donation sounds good.

I agree!

 

[lostndown]

im really glad i found a board where i can share my loss and get prayer/support. it means alot. you ladies/guys are a blessing in my life and God will use all of us for his glory.

sometimes when i pray, i talk to my baby for a little while, so i can say g'nite and i love u. she hears me, i know she does. no i didnt know what i was having but i just picked a girl, cuz i liked the name i picked for a girl = Alexis Kayelyn. its really hard.

if anyone of u ladies needs to talk, or pray, feel freee to pm me i am here for support too. im still getting thru this myself.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I have a little bear

 

[lostndown]

i have a teddy bear too and a eeyore stuffed animal i hold at night. but mostly i just wear my heart necklace i got in memory of baby.

 

[llghoney]

http://www.thecomfortcompany.net/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=116

I found this the other day that I got.

I'm also really wanting to get something with the birthstone of the babys on it as well.

 

[lostndown]

yeah it helps having it at ur heart cuz ur baby knows u love him/her. its still so hard though to think bout it. i cry alot

 

[Jennie726]

We set up a grave for ours with a beautiful headstone. We go every Sunday to visit. I also bought these bracelets that say Mommy to Angels. Hubby is buying me a necklace soon with their birthstones on it. He's suppose to get it for my birthday next month.

 

[llghoney]

We set up a grave for ours with a beautiful headstone. We go every Sunday to visit. I also bought these bracelets that say Mommy to Angels. Hubby is buying me a necklace soon with their birthstones on it. He's suppose to get it for my birthday next month.

Aww that is very special!!

We were going to do the same thing there is anecklace my H has seen that is the infinity sign with my birthston eon it & my H's to which that is when our baby would have been born which is coming up next month.

 

[Jennie726]

Aww that is very special!!

We were going to do the same thing there is anecklace my H has seen that is the infinity sign with my birthston eon it & my H's to which that is when our baby would have been born which is coming up next month.

I'm so sorry, hun. That day is so hard to get through. Our twins' due date was July 11th and it was a hard day for me, but thank God for comforting me. I hope he will do the same for you guys . It's amazing to think that our babies are playing in Heaven now though, isn't it? I know that our babies had a wonderful Christmas spending it with Jesus himself.

 

[Denisecollins04]

Hey,

I lost my two year old daughter Stacia in 2002 and to remember her I made her an online memorial. Feel free to visit her at remembered-forever.org/stacia1 and please light a candle for her.

I also recieved this email the other day full of ways to remember lost loved ones, I will paste it here:

1) Create a memory box for your loved one containing any special items that you have which remind you of your loved one. Place notes in your memory box with special memories on them or things you would say to your loved one if they were still here.

2) Make a memorial quilt for your loved one with each square representing a special memory. You could even make it out of their old clothes so that every time you look at it, it will remind you of them.

3) Create an online memorial for your loved one and visit it often, lighting virtual candles and leaving tributes. Some memorial websites don't have these features so try and choose one which lets you light candles.

4) Write a letter to your lost loved one, tell them everything you are missing about them and everything that you learned from them. Tell them that you hope they are looking down on you from heaven.

5) On special occasions, such as birthdays or Christmas, buy a gift for your loved one and then donate it to someone who needs it, such as a homeless person. It will make their day as well as yours.

6) If you are hosting an event such as a wedding or christening, do something to remember your loved one at that special time, to show how much you wish they could be there with you. Perhaps light a candle or hold a few moments silence in their memory.

7) Create a new tradition in remembrance of your loved one. For example you could light a candle and listen to your loved one's favourite music on the 20th day of every month.

Hope this helps someone,

Love Denise xx

 

[llghoney]

Welcome to Cf and sorry for your loss!!!

((hugs)))

thanks for the info you gave!!!!

 

[gracefaith]

Aww that is very special!!

We were going to do the same thing there is anecklace my H has seen that is the infinity sign with my birthston eon it & my H's to which that is when our baby would have been born which is coming up next month.

{{{{Hugz}}}} I'm crying with you.

 

[llghoney]

{{{{Hugz}}}} I'm crying with you.

Awww goodness I pray for you to in that you guys will have a healthy pregnancy!

What is so weird is how I try to block it out like it never happened so I won't be all sad. Does anyone else do that?