Again, you're taking a very specific event, trying to 'refute' quantum tunnelling on a case-by-case basis.
Mmm. Actually, it's been more of a journey ... an ironic statement based on what I'm about to say. I'm thinking I need to change my position ... one of those gestalt things. I never really expected to refute tunneling (i.e., it's not as if I thought the math was wrong), I just didn't accept it as a reality. From the beginning I've considered it a model (and not a very good one), and what I was trying to do was ponder what alternative models might be viable.
It's been interesting. Back before I knew of QM I remember proposing something to my teacher that I called an "entron" - which was essentially a quantum, but a more childish form. It seemed right to me, but the idea got squished and I never chased the implications of it. What always hung me up about QM was its probabilistic nature - because I was taking it as a total randomness. My shift was to look at it from a more Eleatic perspective. In other words, though I'd long accepted particles as manifesting in distinct states, I was still thinking of space as a continuum. In fact, it was just this past summer that I gave up the idea of space having dimension. I've since been thinking of space as a literal nothing with neither substance nor attribute. So, saying we live in 3-space would be erroneous as I see it. If the physical construct were correct, we could make a model with as many degrees of freedom as we chose. There isn't some "hidden" dimension for Trekkies to locate. It took awhile for that idea to catch up with the rest of my mental contortions.
In other words, though I can now say that I could accept tunneling as a viable model, there are implications behind that acceptance that mean we probably still disagree. For example, I've long considered time to be a mere invention of the mind to give reference to motion, and that it is without any real metaphysical meaning (as much as people try to assign it such meaning). I was of the opinion that "time" depended upon the system under consideration, and, therefore, trying to reference it to something external (like cesium) was a serious error. As such, I don't accept the whole space-time thing. Again, it's not that the math is wrong, but it seems a very poor model of reality - despite its support from observation. I agree with Smolin's statement that there is this strong intuitive inclination to say that the reason physics is having problems (conflicts between GR and QM for example) is due to an erroneous concept of time. Accepting tunneling, then, actually moves me farther from the space-time idea, rather than closer to it.
Like the Eleatics, it would lead me to say that "motion" is impossible. Therefore, "time" becomes totally irrelevant. There is no motion, then, as in the movement of a particle through space. Rather, a particle has a probability of existing. That probability is different for different locations, and that probability is affected by the other particles in the system. So, while it might be convenient to say the particle has moved from here to there, what in fact has happened is that it ceased to exist here and began to exist there. The "barrier" then, simply decreases the possibility of it existing in certain locations ... but the probability is never zero. The reason the barrier changes the probability is because it also has a possibility of existing in that self-same location. Further, the existence of the particle in different locations would not be a movement in space, but a change in its extent (a somewhat Cartesian idea).
As such, another disagreement we might have would be in regard to the macro level. Or, maybe it would only be a semantic issue that could now be resolved. I would think, that, if the possibility of tunneling exists at the quantum level, it also exists at the macro level, but it is much reduced. For example, suppose the probability of a particle appearing outside a well is 0.5. If 2 particles are in the well (and ignoring all the complications of their mutal interaction), then each has a probability of 0.5 and the probability that both will appear outside the well is 0.25. Therefore, if the 2 particles bond into a single, larger particle, the probability of the larger particle appearing outside the well is smaller. As such, the number of particles involved in a billiard ball tunneling through the cushion on the pool table is so astronomical as to make the possibility practically zero ... but it is not actually a zero probability.
Therefore, my classical example still stands as a possibility.
As it happens, neutrons do indeed turn into protons - through a specific process called beta-decay, so called because for a neutron to become a proton requires it to shed a beta-particle (i.e., an electron). This notably doesn't happen when protons collide with neutrons.
Indeed, protons and neutrons interact perfectly normally without swapping quarks - quarks cannot even be isolated or separated from the host particle. That is, if even the LHC cannot break a proton into its constituent quarks, simply bumping them together is unlikely to break their bonds.
Unlikely, but I would say it is still possible. As such, though I would now agree that the most likely result is that a particle appearing outside a well is the same as the one that was in it, it cannot be definitely known. The possibility exists that it is a different particle.
In other words, there doesn't actually need to be a physical particle with which the trapped particle can be 'exchanged'.
Saying "particle" may be a semantic problem. Surely there must be some physical manifestation that creates the potential barrier. If not, then we have something interesting to talk about.
Indeed. If you're willing to come up with a quantum mechanical model that explains how leptons can become quarks, and vice versa, contrary to the Standard Model, your Nobel Prize is ready and waiting...
If you would help me, we might get there. So far you've seemed unwilling to joust with the windmill of established physics. Maybe you are willing to do that, but if so, I haven't seen you express in what regard that would be. That's where the everlasting fame lies. Everything else is a predestined refinement of existing math ... kinda boring.