Hope for the addict?

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I say this in love, even though it is blunt truth. I fear that the gospel as commonly preached in our churches has nothing to offer the drug addict, the prostitute, the sex addict, or the soul addicted to alcohol. NOTHING. We cannot offer them deliverance, for if we have not been delivered ourselves from the sin in our own lives, we have nothing to give, for the principle of God is still "Such as I have, give I thee."

We cannot even truly offer them friendship or Christian fellowship, even if they say the sinner's prayer, even if they repent of their sin. They will still, after all, remain bound to their sins as we are to ours, yet most of ours are "socially acceptable"...whereas theirs are not. Be honest here. If a saved former addict struggles with his sin like we struggle with ours, and if they show up one Sundays unbathed, high and wasted, falling again into the sin that binds them, do you really think they will remain welcome in our midst? I doubt it sincerely. Their sins are simply not "acceptable ones" as ours are.

If we ourselves do not serve a God who can set free from sin in our own lives and our sins are "small", what hope do we have to give someone who needs an answer and needs it yesterday to a sin that is decimating their lives?


Is stopping sinning simply a choice? If it is, then what is our excuse for continuing on in our own pet sins? And if it is not, we best be on our knees seeking the answer, and not falling into a contentment without godliness. That, friends, is dangerous ground indeed.

If we believe that holiness is simply a matter of choosing to obey, then we simply do not understand the power of sin and the weakness of the flesh of man. Choice is not enough. The power of God must be on display.

Simply put, it takes God Himself to break the chains wrapped tightly around a man's soul. How I long for us to see this, holiness, as our greatest need, and His even greater supply. God help us to become a church full of delivered saints, who can testify openly, proudly and loudly, that Jesus is able to "save to the uttermost them that come to the Father by Him".

We all have our religious form, our doctriones of belief, but it is a scary thing to think we may be those He had in mind when He said that there would be those in the last days who would have a form of godliness but yet in our actions, deny the power of it in our lives. Do we serve a God able to deliver us from us, or one simply able to forgive? How strong is our God?

Fellow believers, please do not take this as a putdown, for it is not. It is but a loving call for us to examine our very foundations of what we believe about Jesus and His purpose in our lives. The early church was not made up primarily of "religious folk", but social outcasts and vile sinners who found a loving God who delighted in setting people free from their sins that bound them. Delivered saints are excited saints, and this excitement spread the gospel around the known world like wildfire. Saints who have been forgiven much love much.

Could this be the reason why we seem to have such little true love for our Lord, becasue we do not see ourselves as needing much forgiveness...just enough to cover our "little sins"? Perhaps this explains why we see the church basically shifting members much like musical chairs, with plenty of new members, but they are just replacing those that moved in due to boredom themselves. I am afraid we have plenty of smoke, but no fire.

God has not changed, nor has His purpose for us. he wantsot change us into the image of His son. he wants to make us holy...in thought and in action.Thus we have a huge decision to make. It falls on our shoulders to either walk on in an acceptance of defeat, an acceptance that we are "just human" and to tell God in effect, "I am not hungry for real liberty, for I am satisfied in simply being forgiven and going to church".... or to cry out to God in a loud unified voice to deliver us from the sins that bind us, large and small, and to show us the secret to tapping into the power of godliness.

Make no mistake. God still takes great delight in delivering us from our fleshly nature, and by doing so, setting us free from the sins that so easily beset us. Our God has promised us freedom from that old nature, freedom to abide in Him in victory all day, every day. He offers us a "new creation" whereby He sups with us daily, and through the abiding experience, causes us to walk in His statutes, giving us not only the desire to be holy, but the power to be as well.

If we are to offer hope to the lost, shackled and chained to their sins, we must first ask our Lord to remove the shackles from our own souls, and believe that it is God's will that we walk in the free indeed that Christ offers us. May our faith rise to apprehand that for which we were apprehended.

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In His Word, Jesus said "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners. Mark 2:17, Matt 9:12, Luke 5:31

Isn't this wat Jesus reminded us in His Word? If we are so perfect, then we are not humble in His sight and where is our humility. The Lord blesses the meek, the humble in Spirit.

The Lord said in His Word :

These are the ones I look on with favor; those who are humble and contrite in spirit, and who tremble at My word. Isaiah 66:2

I live in a High and Holy Place but also with those who are contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite. Isaiah 57:15

Seek the Lord, all you humble of the land...Seek righteousness, seek humility; perhaps you will be sheltered on the day of the Lord's anger Zep 2:3

Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven Matt 5:3

If we think we are too righteous in our thoughts, we tend to look down even on the lost ones around us. But loving the sinners is the greatest love Christ asks of us. In order that they be moved to see His Grace and Mercy upon them. Just as we are given grace and mercy.

I love this verse... Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God. Matt 5:9 - this brings to mind the Lord's calling to each christians to be these peacemakers. Peace makers are not to judge but to serve with a whole heart of seeking to bring His good NEWS of salvation to the many who are so lost without peace in life.

These sinners are the ones we often "judge" or tag them with prejudiced minds. How are we to bring peace within their hearts, if we do not love these sinners without prejudiced minds?

I believe if all choose to humbly imitate the way Jesus walked with sinners on earth to bring love and salvation to their lives, we can touch many hearts for the Lord.
 
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Having been among those that were in distress and bound by addictions it is with great compassion that I have for those still afflicted and lost in there captivity. Unfortunatly what you have expressed here I find in my local church. They are lost as to how to help. What is this, it should not be. Do we have such unbelief or small faith that we don't think God can set captives free. Well I know in my own life it was Him and only Him that set this man free, and I long to tell the world of His amazing love.
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I have worked wth people bound in addictions and God wants to heal the whole person.

Our church is right across from a homeless ladies hostel. The girls are welcome in our church, we have seen some delivered and set free.Salt and light is a ministry from our church working with addicts, alcoholics and prostitutes which I have been involved in.
A bus goes into the city working with the prostitutes, addicts and alcoholics.

We as a church believe in showig the Father's heart of God to all men and women.I'm not saying we have arrived but God loves them, and we have to learn to love like He loves.

It saddens me when someone makes a profession of faith , then gets caught up in the downward spiral of addictions again. I long for the day when I can see many instantly delivered and set free in Jesus Name.

God gave me this poem last year

AN ADDICT’S JOURNEY
Life for me has been so tough,
And all I have looked for is love,
I have experienced blow after blow,
When it got rough friends didn’t want to know.

I looked in the bars for meaning in life,
But all I found was hurting and strife,
The bottle wasn’t the answer I could plainly see,
Yet for a little while it killed the pain in me.

I searched for happiness and couldn’t find it,
I drank and took drugs which took me to the pit,
But I couldn’t find a purpose in all of this,
So again I shot up looking for a moment of bliss.

But in all of this there was no real meaning,
I had to search for life’s real reason,
And still I was searching for real love,
I didn’t know I could find it from God above.

Then someone gave me soup and a sandwich,
Served with a lovely smile and they seemed to care,
They told me that though I was poor I could be rich,
For Jesus had died my many sins to bear.

I looked at this person in a state of unbelief,
Something in that loving smile hit home to me,
I said “Jesus be real to me” and I found relief,
For through the blindness I was beginning to see.

I asked Jesus into my life for I wanted a new start,
And I felt this wonderful embrace of love,
As the Holy Spirit descended on me like a dove,
There’s no looking back for Jesus I am set apart.

So if you are searching for life’s meaning today.
Let me tell you friend that Christ is the way.
And let me tell you there is no other love,
Like the love that you can find in God above.

( This is not my personal testimony I have known Jesus since childhood, but I have seen this Jesus I love turn others lives around changing their lives completely and setting them free.)

Irene McGough © 2008
 
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Irene, the poem was amazing! Thanks for sharing with us the loving outreach you do for the lost. When we say lost, its real lost people we refer to, not just the ones who don't believe in God, but the ones who are divulged in a life full of sin.

I remember meeting an old girlfriend of mine who indulged into prostitution for the money. She was so beautiful and had a great body. She was drifted apart from her true self and lived in that circle with many friends totally rejecting her. I personally met her and did invite her to my home. She cried. I cried. I knew her pain was because she did not like what she did after a while. She had all the money but there was no love in her life. I told her living alone, does not mean we are unloved. There is a Mighty Lover up above loving us unconditionally. I did not look at her sin, but I saw this beautiful woman who deserves His Grace. She was so touched and said she never knew a friend could love her the same despite her lifestyle.

Well, to me, I do not care of her personal lifestyle. I just saw the "human" in her. I knew the flesh was Satan's game. I gave her the Bible and told her to read the chapter about Jesus saving the prostitute from being stoned. She was so changed after that meet-up. We often meet. Despite the glares I get for being with her, I care not of the world. We got her into a support group and she is so blessed to be a NEW PERSON today. Isn't the Lord gracious? HE IS!

Jeff, we live in a world where Satan bounds ppl to his lifetime prison. Its us to set free the prisoners by reaching them. I am so glad to know you are also set free. i think each one of us are set free in so many ways.

Each of us have our own story in life but God was too gracious to save. He did not look at the righteous, He sought the lost. His love is extremely without boundaries. He sets us all free with His Amazing Grace!

I chose the name Amazing Grace for my Christian Name all because without Grace from the Lord, I am doomed. We live because of His love.
 
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Dear Amazing Grace, such a precious name, thank you for your words, they burst upon a heart that needed to hear such words, I thank my God and yours for his work that He is accomplishing through you and in you. Yes when we are consumed in His love, the world deminishes in our vision. Your reaching out to this beautiful child of God who was trapped by the lies of the world, is so Holy and righteous, may God continue to draw you to the truly lost.
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Excellent Thread! Being a christian in recovery myself, God pointed me into the direction of going back to school to become a addiction counselor. I just passed my State Board exam this last year. I am not sure where God is taking me, but I know it is perhaps to let others know how so many suffer in the church as you just talked about. I work with addicts everyday, Christian/Non-Christian.
Many at church feel addiction is just the smelly, high person. But really addiction can be food, computer, gossip, excessive exercise, self pity, prescription medications, cigarettes, sex, caffeine, gambling, self inflicted pain, anger, basically overindulging in things that produces excessive dopamine. Dopamine is a natural chemical that humans love, we do this in excess to feel good. The addiction professionals are seeing that all of these things produce the same type of release, although of coarse some of these addictions produce a more intense release. And as a christian, all of these things keep our mind off of God, and on ourselves.

Many in the church don't realize that the chains outwardly binding the Alcoholic/Addict may also be binding themselves in the same way. So many addicts are so very afraid to reach out for help due to being judged, so they live in silence.

I once knew a very wise Jesuit, who told me of a story. He was at a huge Jesuit's conference and they were all in the conference with bubbled heads, stanched out necks. As they were coming into the conference there were homeless kissing their hands and feet on the outside steps. He said Jesus wasn't in the room with the bubbled heads, He was outside with the homeless . I will never forget this story for the rest of my life, I find it so humbling.

I do feel the word needs to get out to help others who suffer from this, I find your thread wonderful.
 
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