I just want to make sure I understand this. Your husband was divorcing his terminally ill wife to marry you? Is that correct?
Oh no Swansong. I was just going to fix that so my post made more sense. Sorry, I'm ill right now too.
No, she was his ex wife at the time we fell in love and met each other. But, technically or biblically, according to the scriptures he should have been reconciled to her or wait for widowhood to get remarried.
However, when we met, there was no way he was going to be reconciled to his first wife. That relationship was over because she wouldn't stop drinking or doing drugs. She died of alcoholic liver disease. When I met her in the hospital she was yellow; she was very jaundiced and wasting away. I met her and kept her cordially in the family because of my husband's daughter who I thought shouldn't be without her Mom even though my husband had legal custody of his daughter because his ex wife was deemed an unfit mother by the courts and my husband had full and sole custody of his daughter. The birth Mom was only allowed 2 to 4 hours a month with her daughter under supervision.
I was just pointing out a biblical technicality if one read that scripture alone, meaning my husband should have been reconciled to his wife biblically or wait to be a widow to get remarried, if that makes sense.
Hope this made more sense, Swansong.
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