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Homosexual Fornication and Idolatry

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5Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Col 3:5

6Now these things occurred as examples to keep us from setting our hearts on evil things as they did. 7Do not be idolaters, as some of them were; as it is written: "The people sat down to eat and drink and got up to indulge in pagan revelry." 8We should not commit sexual immorality, as some of them did—and in one day twenty-three thousand of them died. 9We should not test the Lord, as some of them did—and were killed by snakes. 10And do not grumble, as some of them did—and were killed by the destroying angel. 1 Cor. 10:6-10


If a heterosexual or homosexual fornicator is unwilling to lay aside his "need" to fornicate in lieu of living in obedience to the Word of God, isn't this idolatry?

If you place anything before God, is it not idolatry?
 

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5Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Col 3:5

6Now these things occurred as examples to keep us from setting our hearts on evil things as they did. 7Do not be idolaters, as some of them were; as it is written: "The people sat down to eat and drink and got up to indulge in pagan revelry." 8We should not commit sexual immorality, as some of them did—and in one day twenty-three thousand of them died. 9We should not test the Lord, as some of them did—and were killed by snakes. 10And do not grumble, as some of them did—and were killed by the destroying angel. 1 Cor. 10:6-10


If a heterosexual or homosexual fornicator is unwilling to lay aside his "need" to fornicate in lieu of living in obedience to the Word of God, isn't this idolatry?

If you place anything before God, is it not idolatry?

The verses do not distinguish between heterosexual fornicators and homosexual fornicators so why do you? Unless it is to perpetuate an unBiblical double-standard. All fornication is sinful, but not all sex is fornication.

Are you willing to lay aside your "need" to have sex in favor of obedience to the word of God? (1 Cor 7:7-8)

[bible]Colossians 3:5-9[/bible]
[bible]1 Corinthians 10:6-30[/bible]

More to the point, though, are you willing to lay aside your anger, wrath, malice,... in favor of obedience to the word of God?

Are you willing to lay aside your "speak[ing] evil of that for which [some of us] give thanks"?
 
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The verses do not distinguish between heterosexual fornicators and homosexual fornicators so why do you? Unless it is to perpetuate an unBiblical double-standard. All fornication is sinful, but not all sex is fornication.

The title is for the forum. But if you read the post, is it not clear that I included heterosexual and homosexual fornication?


More to the point, though, are you willing to lay aside your anger, wrath, malice,... in favor of obedience to the word of God?

Yep.

Are you willing to lay aside your "speak[ing] evil of that for which [some of us] give thanks"?

Just because some of you choose to give thanks for that which holds you in bondage does not mean that God's people are speaking evilly of it when they tell you what He says.
 
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I started the passages I quoted with the verses Zaac quoted. Re-read the whole passages, especially the 1 Corinthians passage. Then reflect on verses 23-30.

If God says that all things are legal, and that we are to consider the other person's conscience, not our own, in judging him, and that if the other person, after prayer and study has honestly come to a different conclusion than our own, then we should not speak evil of that for which he gives thanks to God, who are we to sit in God's place?
[bible]James 4:10-12[/bible]
 
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Always, God > All.

Yes, God is greater than any of us. Also, no one of is greater than his brothers.

Is that what you think of it? I doubt he has evil intentions. I could be misreading.

Neither did the Corinthian Christians who criticized their Christian neighbors for buying their meat in the "shambles" instead of from a kosher butcher have evil intentions. They did however accuse those neighbors of evil deeds, where there were none, all because of their misplaced application of the Holiness Code.
 
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I started the passages I quoted with the verses Zaac quoted. Re-read the whole passages, especially the 1 Corinthians passage. Then reflect on verses 23-30.

If God says that all things are legal, and that we are to consider the other person's conscience, not our own, in judging him, and that if the other person, after prayer and study has honestly come to a different conclusion than our own, then we should not speak evil of that for which he gives thanks to God, who are we to sit in God's place?
[bible]James 4:10-12[/bible]

And understand the context of God saying all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial.

Because HE has given you free will, all things are legal to you. You have the CHOICE to do whatever you CHOOSE to do.

But you being given the freedom to CHOOSE to do whatever you want does not mean that God wants you to CHOOSE to do some things.

How do we know this? Because His Word speaks AGAINST you doing those things.

And so if after prayer and study you have honestly concluded that in opposition to God's Word, I as an obedient Christian, am obligated of God to make your wrong known and why it is wrong.

Truth is not relative to what we pray about, study and conclude.

Truth is based in what God SAYS.

Now if we do things the way you just prescribed, every man should do whatever he chooses without correction. And in that regard, there is no need for Jesus Christ to have gone to the Cross.

But as it stands, Jesus Christ didn't go to the Cross because of your legal right to CHOOSE to do whatver you want.

He went to the Cross so that you could be forgiven and with Him in spite of your decision to CHOOSE to do whatever you want even after He has commanded that you not do it.
 
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And understand the context of God saying all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial.

Perfectly correct. We should always strive to choose what God has decided is the best choice for us.

Because HE has given you free will, all things are legal to you. You have the CHOICE to do whatever you CHOOSE to do.

No Argument.

But you being given the freedom to CHOOSE to do whatever you want does not mean that God wants you to CHOOSE to do some things.

I would not have phrased it in exactly the same words, but I agree with this, too.

How do we know this? Because His Word speaks AGAINST you doing those things.

What, exactly, are you accusing me of that God's word speaks against?

And so if after prayer and study you have honestly concluded that in opposition to God's Word, I as an obedient Christian, am obligated of God to make your wrong known and why it is wrong.

That is exactly what the Corinthians said to their Christian neighbors who bought their meat in the "shambles." Paul says that they were speaking evil of something that was not evil.

Truth is not relative to what we pray about, study and conclude.

Truth is based in what God SAYS.

I agree, but how do we learn what God says?
[bible]Jude 1:20[/bible]
[bible]2 Timothy 2:15[/bible]

By prayer and by honest study of the Scriptures.

Now if we do things the way you just prescribed, every man should do whatever he chooses without correction.

If he is walking in the Spirit, according to what, after prayerful study, then he does not need your correction, even if his choice is one that you believe would be sinful for you.

And in that regard, there is no need for Jesus Christ to have gone to the Cross.

This statement is nonsense. We are talking about those who have already aknowledged, confessed and repented their sins and sought and recieved God's Grace, which only comes through Christ's death on the cross.

But as it stands, Jesus Christ didn't go to the Cross because of your legal right to CHOOSE to do whatver you want.

I never claimed that he did. Neither did I claim (which would be a more understandable misunderstanding of my statement) that after they are saved, Christians are free to ignore God's will.

He went to the Cross so that you could be forgiven and with Him in spite of your decision to CHOOSE to do whatever you want even after He has commanded that you not do it.

Again, I would phrase it differently, but I think I agree with this statement (assuming I understand your meaning properly).

So to sum up, I believe:

All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God

But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?

I am not advocating sin. I am advocating that, while as Christians we are all part of the Body which is the Church, we are all different.

For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ. For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. And if they were all one member, where were the body? But now are they many members, yet but one body. And the eye cannot say unto the hand, I have no need of thee: nor again the head to the feet, I have no need of you. Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be more feeble, are necessary: And those members of the body, which we think to be less honourable, upon these we bestow more abundant honour; and our uncomely parts have more abundant comeliness. For our comely parts have no need: but God hath tempered the body together, having given more abundant honour to that part which lacked: That there should be no schism in the body; but that the members should have the same care one for another.

So God's will for me is not the same as God's will for you. It is entirely possible that I am wrong about what God's will is for me, or that you are wrong about what God's will is for you. God alone will be the judge of that.

If we judge one another based on what we believe to be God's will for ourselves, we not only are probaly wrong, we are in the wrong. (see John 21:21-22)
 
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There is and there is not a double standard when it comes to homosexual violators.

Because gay relations and the homosexual orinetation are objectively evil, and because heterosexuals can make their relationship sacramental while the homosexuals never can, gay sexual relationships are perpetually sinful and objectively evil and thus gay fornication is a greater degree of sin.
 
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There is and there is not a double standard when it comes to homosexual violators.

Because gay relations and the homosexual orinetation are objectively evil, and because heterosexuals can make their relationship sacramental while the homosexuals never can, gay sexual relationships are perpetually sinful and objectively evil and thus gay fornication is a greater degree of sin.

This argument actually sounds more logical when applied to non-kosher meat.

There is and there is not a double standard when it comes to shambles meat.

Because non-kosher meat and offering meat to idols is objectively evil, and because a shochet can make his meat kosher while the butchers in the shambles never can, shambles meat is perpetually sinful and objectively evil and thus buying non-kosher meat is a greater degree of sin.


But it is precicely that attitude that Paul spoke against. If it is wrong in a situation where it actually makes sense, why should it be right in a situation where it doesn't?
 
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What, exactly, are you accusing me of that God's word speaks against?

That was not an indictment upon you, but upon all men.

That is exactly what the Corinthians said to their Christian neighbors who bought their meat in the "shambles." Paul says that they were speaking evil of something that was not evil.

No comparison. A lie is a lie. Adultery is adultery.And fornication is fornication.

We're not talking about something that is subjective to cultural mores. We're talking about what God's Word says independent of culture. And in accordance with this fornication in Corinth is fornication in Tulsa , Oklahoma.

And if a person, be he homosexual or heterosexual, is unwilling to lay down his fornicating in order to be obedient to Christ, it is idolatry as well as fornication.

Many in this forum are guilty of both.

I agree, but how do we learn what God says?
[bible]Jude 1:20[/bible]
[bible]2 Timothy 2:15[/bible]

By prayer and by honest study of the Scriptures.

If by prayer and honest study of the Scriptures you conclude something counter to what God's Word says, then you've concluded wrong.

It just isn't as complicated as people want to make it. But so many of us want to reword God's Word to say what we want it to say instead of just accepting what it says.

If he is walking in the Spirit, according to what, after prayerful study, then he does not need your correction, even if his choice is one that you believe would be sinful for you.

If he is walking in the spirit, he is going to be aligned with what God's Word says. Sin does not become sin based upon what I believe. It is sin because God says so.

One of the ways of testing the spirits is to see what the spirit is telling you in relation to what God's Word says. That's one of the reasons He gave it to us. And if a person thinks that he is walking in the spirit and receiving something correct that is contrary to God's Word, then he is not dealing with the HOLY spirit but another spirit.

God does not author confusion. A God of ordeer does not divide His house against itself by saying one thing in His Holy Inerrant Word and then getting the deliverer of truth, The Holy Spirit, to turn around and tell you something else.

He is a God of ORDER. And if "a spirit" is telling you something that is contrary to what the Word says, it is NOT the Holy Spirit.

Again, it just isn't that complicated. It's our wants and desires that lead us to think that the Holy Spirit is validating our wants and desires when it's really an unclean spirit telling us what we want to hear.

This is why, as a Christian, you HAVE TO accept God's Word as absolute truth. If you don't, the door is opened for every measure of confusion that the world has ever imagined.

Take this one issue of homosexual fornication. People are going back and forth on it. God's Word clearly says one thing. But because some are being lead by unHoly desires, they have dismissed what God's Word says, and proceeded to discount God's Word as absolute truth. Some have gone so far as to discount it as God's Word at all. Still others have done Word studies to find alternate meanings. WHile others have quote commentators whose version of the truth they like better than God's.

Why would a God of order send His people through that much disorder to get to the truth? Why would a God of order say one thing in His Word, yet expect us to dig and word study and quote other men to know what He is saying?

He does not. That's what men do.

It's as though the very people who are saying they are Christians in this forum have taken on the personas of Muslims. Muslims also believe that God's Word has been corrupted. Yet much like the folks in this forum, none of these Muslims seem to be able to pinpoint the time that God's Word changed from what they think it should say to what it actually says .

This statement is nonsense. We are talking about those who have already aknowledged, confessed and repented their sins and sought and recieved God's Grace, which only comes through Christ's death on the cross.

Of course it's nonesense. It's nonesense because every man...NO man gets to decide what is sin. And we are talking about people who say that they have acknowledged, confessed and repented of their sins, but who now say that what God says is sin is not sin.

If you don't think it is sin, how could there have been an acknowledgment, confession and repentance of acts of sin that you don't consider to be sin?

It doesn't happen.

So God's will for me is not the same as God's will for you. It is entirely possible that I am wrong about what God's will is for me, or that you are wrong about what God's will is for you. God alone will be the judge of that.

If we judge one another based on what we believe to be God's will for ourselves, we not only are probaly wrong, we are in the wrong. (see John 21:21-22)

I'm talking about sin. And God has not WILLED that any of His Children sin. God's will is that you live in obedience to Him. That does not change from Christian to Christian.
 
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That was not an indictment upon you, but upon all men.

I'll accept that you meant to use a generic "you" rather than a specific "you." I do wonder, however, why you used "you" instead of "we." It makes it seem as though you are claiming to be above the rest of us.

No comparison. A lie is a lie. Adultery is adultery.And fornication is fornication.

No argument.

We're not talking about something that is subjective to cultural mores. We're talking about what God's Word says independent of culture. And in accordance with this fornication in Corinth is fornication in Tulsa , Oklahoma.

And if a person, be he homosexual or heterosexual, is unwilling to lay down his fornicating in order to be obedient to Christ, it is idolatry as well as fornication.

Many in this forum are guilty of both.

I would agree if the subject were fornication. The trouble is that you have defined activities as fornication that the Bible does not.

If by prayer and honest study of the Scriptures you conclude something counter to what God's Word says, then you've concluded wrong.

I don't disagree with the statement above, as far as it goes. What I do disagree with is your unfounded assumption that my conclusion goes counter to God's Word. It is instead the result of what God says in the Bible.

It just isn't as complicated as people want to make it. But so many of us want to reword God's Word to say what we want it to say instead of just accepting what it says.

Thank you for finally admitting that you can't just accept what God's word says.

If he is walking in the spirit, he is going to be aligned with what God's Word says. Sin does not become sin based upon what I believe. It is sin because God says so.

Right. Fornication, incest, and adultery are sin. But not all sex is fornication, incest, or adultery. Sex within a loving, committed, faithful marriage is not sin. Especially a Christian marriage covenanted with God.

One of the ways of testing the spirits is to see what the spirit is telling you in relation to what God's Word says. That's one of the reasons He gave it to us. And if a person thinks that he is walking in the spirit and receiving something correct that is contrary to God's Word, then he is not dealing with the HOLY spirit but another spirit.

Again I don't disagree with this statement. But this has nothing to do with our disagreement

God does not author confusion. A God of ordeer does not divide His house against itself by saying one thing in His Holy Inerrant Word and then getting the deliverer of truth, The Holy Spirit, to turn around and tell you something else.

I agree with this statement. But I disagee that it applies to our disagreement.

He is a God of ORDER. And if "a spirit" is telling you something that is contrary to what the Word says, it is NOT the Holy Spirit.

One more time. True but irrelevent.

Again, it just isn't that complicated. It's our wants and desires that lead us to think that the Holy Spirit is validating our wants and desires when it's really an unclean spirit telling us what we want to hear.

One way to prevent that is to pray and to study the Scriptures. As you learn more of God's will, and begin to walk in it, your earthly Sin Nature has less control over you.

This is why, as a Christian, you HAVE TO accept God's Word as absolute truth. If you don't, the door is opened for every measure of confusion that the world has ever imagined.

Exactly. It is important to be sure that you are in line with God's will. And the Bible is the most important tool for discovering that will.

Take this one issue of homosexual fornication. People are going back and forth on it. God's Word clearly says one thing. But because some are being lead by unHoly desires, they have dismissed what God's Word says, and proceeded to discount God's Word as absolute truth. Some have gone so far as to discount it as God's Word at all. Still others have done Word studies to find alternate meanings. WHile others have quote commentators whose version of the truth they like better than God's.

The same can be said for a lot of things in life. There are those that don't revere the Bible as God's word. Some of them believe the wrong things. Some of them believe things that are not wrong in themselves, but the way they apply them to life is wrong. Some come, coincidently, to the right conclusions, but all are lost.

But all of this has nothing to do with our disagreement.

Why would a God of order send His people through that much disorder to get to the truth? Why would a God of order say one thing in His Word, yet expect us to dig and word study and quote other men to know what He is saying?

I mainly agree with what you are saying, but I sense a hidden assumption that I don't fully share.

I believe in the inerrancy of the Scriptures, and in a Plain Meaning interpretation. The Holy Spirit has preserved those writings that we need to understand God's will. But, the prophets and apostles were writing to specific people within specific cultures. To fully understand the sense, we need to understand how the original readers would have understood it.

Usually the obvious sense in the translation is the same as the original sense, but sometimes there is translation bias, or the culture is different enough that without knowing the difference we could mke the wrong assumptions.

You seem to be implying that we don't need to understnd these things. That the plain sense of the English translation as heard in today's culture is always correct, even if it would conflict with the historical usage. If you don't mean to imply this I apologize.

He does not. That's what men do.

Exactly. That is why it is important to understand the Plain Meaning as the original readers would have understood it.

It's as though the very people who are saying they are Christians in this forum have taken on the personas of Muslims. Muslims also believe that God's Word has been corrupted. Yet much like the folks in this forum, none of these Muslims seem to be able to pinpoint the time that God's Word changed from what they think it should say to what it actually says .

I'm not sure thatI'd go so far as to insult the other posters for their honest beliefs, but yes, there are a lot of opinions of the accuracy of the Scriptures that I don't endorse.

Of course it's nonesense. It's nonesense because every man...NO man gets to decide what is sin. And we are talking about people who say that they have acknowledged, confessed and repented of their sins, but who now say that what God says is sin is not sin.

But if God has nowhere declared it to be sin, then on what basis are you declaring this action -- toward which, presumably, you yourself feel no "temptation" to be a sin for someone else? As you said, "NO man gets to decide what is sin."

If you don't think it is sin, how could there have been an acknowledgment, confession and repentance of acts of sin that you don't consider to be sin?

There are lots of things that are not sin, but which if I were to do them I would not be walking in God's best will for my life. For me they are as sinful as things labelled as Sin (1 Corinthians 8). But if I see another Christian doing these same things, I don't know that he is not walking in God's will. God will judge him, and it would be sinful for me to stand in God's place.

I'm talking about sin.
No you are talking about a sexual activity which you have labelled Sin without examining what Gaod has to say about it.
And God has not WILLED that any of His Children sin. God's will is that you live in obedience to Him. That does not change from Christian to Christian.

I agree.
 
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